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Degenerating or Regenerating?

2011-04-29T00:36:00.003-04:00

I'm almost positive that there is a law of science which mentions (paraphrased by me) that nothing gets better, everything is degenerating, breaking down, etc. You know what I'm talking about? They say from the moment a baby is born, it starts to die. Just looking in our own lives we can see health fail, finances straggling, etc. It can be down-right depressing if you start looking at it all from that point of view. Gas prices sky-rocket and so follows the food prices, toiletries...just stuff that we use to live in this world. When you look around at all the disasters brought about by earthquakes, tsunami, and as of late...tornadoes, when you see whole communities vanish and a family's possessions get wiped out it can really wake you up. We take so much for granted.
As a child of God, I am so thankful that everything in life is NOT on the downward cycle. God has provided us with stability! We know for certain that He will NEVER change which offers us a stronghold to hang on to. What a blessed assurance! He's also promised us that His Word would never change. Isn't it amazing how you can read and re-read the Bible and its always new and refreshing each time? God has given us His Word and many promises to hold on to....that is POSITIVE!
When one stops and thinks about it, in this world we have mostly negative. Look at the newspaper and you'll quickly see there's more "bad" things in it than uplifting. Even if you listen to people's conversations, often times there is very little positive worth in it. Shame on us! In times like these we need our Savior. He is our life-line!!! In His Omniscience, he realized that the closer to His coming we get, the more we would need to rely on Him to make it. What hope have we in this world of ours? If I had hope in this life only, I'd just be miserable. BUT GOD!!!! He is a constant. So many people turn their back on God or to drugs, alcohol and things that destroy and only make life worse. God wants to offer something that will give you a total different outlook - it's kind of like - OUT OF THIS WORLD!
So, just a word of encouragement if you feel you're all alone and everything seems to be going wrong....take a close look and evaluate where you are in your relationship with God. If that is in good shape, then just hang on to the PROMISES and use the artillery He's provided you with. If you should find that you're not quite where you really need to be...if you're relationship isn't as close as it needs to be with Him...if there are things you need to take care of - DO IT! Why hold on to things which will pull you down??? Remember the law of science...it DOESN'T need our help. Get your heart right, your eyes on the Master and your thoughts on praising the wonderful Savior we know as our EVERYTHING!
When you look at it in the right perspective...you're whole attitude will change. Realize how blessed you are to be a child of the King! Walk in that realm! Live your life as worship to the Lord! Yes, things in this life degenerate but with God in our lives, we can daily REGENERATE! Jesus is coming soon - hold on, look up and shine like never before. God bless~

Could It Be?

2011-04-04T22:36:00.002-04:00

Could it be....? Thomas was the only person ever mentioned who "needed" to see the nail-prints in Jesus' hands. Think about it...Jesus could have been scar-less, but could it be that He allowed the scars to remain JUST FOR THOMAS?! If He'll do something like that for just one person, don't you think He will do the unthinkable for you?

Change Your Focus

2011-02-02T10:35:00.001-05:00

Are you trying to gain someones approval? acceptance? love? I wanted to share this thought with you.
Most of us know the story of the "wife swap" with star players being Jacob, Leah and Rachel, right? Laban made Jacob work an extra seven years for Rachel after tricking him and giving him Leah after the first seven years of work.
So, Leah gave birth to three sons...all the while trying to get Jacob to love her like he did Rachel. After each child she would think, "Surely he'll love me now!" It never happened though; Jacob loved Rachel. However, on the third son, I think she finally had a break-through for the Bible says she said, "Now will I praise the Lord." Whoa....big change! She changed her focus and did not bare any more children afterward.
Could it be that through her worship, God bridged the gap and provided the love and acceptance she was looking for?
We all seek the approval of someone at one time or another during our life. We want someone to love us, to take interest in us, to accept us, etc. Maybe instead of looking for man's approval we should focus more on God's approval. I guarantee things will take a change for the better! God's love is unconditional and nobody can love like He can. Think about it. Just saying!!!

One thing more...you have to continue to keep that attitude and not let the "old man" return. This is important to remember.

"Endureth"

2011-02-01T10:49:00.000-05:00

The key word for this week seems to be "endureth". In today's society, we are accustomed to having everything "our way" and having it right now. Consider the fast-food drive-thru window and you'll realize what I'm saying. However, life does not offer us one of those windows. When things seem to be going crazy, when everything seems to be falling apart, and when you feel you can't go on...the word you need to hang on to is "endureth."
The Bible tells us many stories of people who had issues in their lives. I think that's a given with any human being. Life continuously throws us curve balls when we're up to bat, making it very hard to hit anything better than a foul ball. Look at Job...he lost everything he had in one day's time. Joseph tried doing everything right, but ended up in a pit, sold into slavery, and in prison. There are many other examples too. Sometimes we do everything "right" and it ends up all wrong. The trick is to endure.
No matter what is going on in your life...whether it be physical, spiritual, financial, or anything in between...you must remember that the ultimate goal is to endure. The Bible tells us if we're going to win, we've got to endure till the end. It doesn't say you have to "like" what's going on or that everything is going to be a bed of roses, you just have to make it through it. Tie a knot in your rope and hang in there. The beautiful thing about it is that God will be with you all the way through. Sometimes we fail to realize that and we tend to think we're all alone in the pit. If you're on God's side, He says He will never leave you alone. What an encouragement that should be to us. Ultimately, God IS in control...its in His hands.
So, keep telling yourself "this too shall pass" and encouraging yourself in the Lord. If He has brought you to it, He will and is more than able to bring you through it. Don't let the enemy tell you that you're going to fall apart because God will hold you together....you're in His hands. Just put on your boots and walk right through the muck of disappointment and let-downs, keep rolling through every soggy valley and discouragement, continue to look to the Lord for your help and know that it won't last always. God knows how much you can bear and He knows exactly how much He's going to let you stretch this time around.
I know the phrase "grin and bear it" isn't what we always want to hear, but that's the gist of what "endureth" manes. Hang in there and know God will bring you through the fire if you'll just hold on, wait on Him and worship your way right through it.

Another Blog

2011-01-26T11:57:00.000-05:00

I have started another blog to chart my journey through the culinary world. Come by and check it out. I won't be "eating" on this blog anymore. Check it out!

Yes, I cooked....THAT!

OUR GOD....MY GOD

2011-01-25T10:38:00.001-05:00

So, last night I could hardly sleep....I watched this video and by the time it was over, I was ALL fired up! It's awesome and I wanted to share it with everyone I could....so help me spread the word....email my link to your contacts. God is totally awesome and I'm just so awed and humbled to be one of his children! Get your revelation here! Here's the link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCIyBxPBJXw

There are 5 parts...be sure to watch them all! You won't be disappointed!!!!

Just a thought

2011-01-05T14:22:00.002-05:00

Think about it: God created the world and everything in it - animals, plants, etc.....then he created man...and the world he created wasn't quite good enough for man...so he planted a garden...isn't that something? God wanted to make it a "little better" for us! If that isn't love...

Christmas Windows and the Circle of Love

2010-12-04T10:48:00.000-05:00

Ok, you asked for it...here it is...my 2010 Christmas story to share with you. Feel free to comment. Enjoy!

Christmas Windows and the Circle of Love

Inside all was right. Twinkling strands of tiny lights merrily danced around the ruby-red room. Garlands of pine, holly and ivy elegantly adorned the huge sash-windows and fireplace mantle. In the corner stood a perfect Christmas tree ornamented with all manner of tiny bows and shiny baubles. The cheerful sounds of holiday music and laughter radiated warmly around the room. Why, even the crackling and popping sounds of the fireplace added quite a charm to the festive room.

All this, the little lad took in quietly and secretly from his perch of fresh-packed white snow right outside the window pane. He peeked carefully into the home of the wealthy town mayor and wondered how it would be to spend Christmas in this home. He sighed in awe as he stepped away and quietly walked on down the street.

The cold night air whipped fiercely at his small worn-out jacket as he nestled a little deeper into his bright-red crocheted sock-hat and scarf. His small feet seemed to be frozen and he glanced down at his raggedy, black, snow-covered boots to be sure the laces were still tied. He walked on quite a ways until he came to another home. He carefully made his way to another Christmas window...

Framed by ivory, lace curtains stood a huge, round Christmas tree as tall and sturdy as the toy soldiers he had seen in the town Christmas parade earlier that week. Red, gold and green plaid ribbons bedecked this live fir tree and he could see a small, toy-train chugging on the track underneath. As he took in the scene through this window, he didn't have to worry he might be seen, so he peered in one corner and then the other. The room seemed to glow as if maybe a real-live angel topped this jolly tree! He spied a pile of gifts wrapped in foil paper and shiny bows as he moved from one side of the window to the other. As a puff of warm air escaped his gaped-open mouth, it caused the window to fog up a bit so he reluctantly moved along. Again, inside everything seemed right.

Little Benjamin, now at a safe distance from the two-story brick home, kicked up a bit of snow and watched as it fell back to the ground like fine, white powder. Gingerly, he moved about trying to warm himself a bit. He was all alone and had nowhere to go, so he decided to walk on to the little town square.

What grand sights he saw in the windows of quaint downtown shops. There were trees of all sizes decorated with snowflakes, candy canes and such. Replicas of Frosty and Santa stood at attention here and there. There were red wagons and BB guns for boys, dolls and skates for little girls, dresses and jewelry for ladies and long coats and top-hats for the gentlemen. Twinkly lights made everything glisten and it seemed like a wonderful dreamland for little Ben. He saw others peering through store windows too and wondered what they were thinking and feeling.

He heard cheerful laughter and the muffled melody of Christmas songs from carolers across the way. He smelled wonderful aromas of gingerbread, cookies and pies coming from the tiny bakery across the street. He longed to pass by, if only for a piece of one-cent candy but he dared not. Bells were ringing, carolers were singing, and the lighted, store-front windows seemed to say all was right.

Benjamin turned the corner and walked away from town a ways until he came to another home. It wasn't quite as grand as those he had seen on the other side of the town, but it seemed cozy just the same.

As he walked into the yard, he saw a huge oak tree decorated with a bright-yellow ribbon. He thought that was supposed to represent something about someone coming home or something. His little mind couldn't quite figure it all out, but he knew it must be important. From behind the sheer curtains he could see candles dancing in each window. A green wreath trimmed with red bows adorned the front door and the lighted fir tree in the front yard added to the comforting ambiance of this home. The porch steps were wide and welcoming so the little guy tip-toed right up and over to one of the little windows. Although this home was less extravagant than the mayor's or any other home he had see tonight for that matter, there was something there that he couldn't quite put his finger on. Something in the voices and faces of the family inside...made it seem like all was right.

He shivered like a leaf as he walked back down the steps and trudged on down the road. He was almost home now. He walked passed his school-mate's house and saw her gazing out her window. Lights from the Christmas tree beside her colored her face in rich hues. No, they didn't have as much here on the south side of town, but they were happy. He stood for a moment watching Belle gaze into the dark, winter sky. He wondered if she might be waiting for more snow to fall, maybe watching for Santa's reindeer to fly across the sky or saying a prayer to the Lord above. Whatever it was, she didn't even see him for she was in a daze. Belle's dad had been laid off his job at the factory a few months ago and her family was having a hard time this holiday season. He didn't know about himself, but he knew Belle probably wouldn't be getting much for Christmas. The local church had put together a care package of food for them just this week. As bad as it must be, Ben never heard Belle complain or say one thing negative. He wanted to give her something for Christmas but he knew his family didn't have much money either and his piggy bank was empty. He didn't even have one cent to his name! Watching her gaze out her window, her expression seemed to say....it was all right.

As Ben neared his little home, he knew it was not nearly as decorated as other houses he had seen that night. Father had managed to hang a few strands of Christmas lights on the roof edge this year and they had a small, decorated tree inside. Ben and his little brother had spent hours making red and green paper chains and stringing popcorn to decorate their small artificial tree. There were no neatly wrapped presents or toy trains underneath it either. It was simple and that was fine with him.

As he opened the front door, the wonderful aroma of freshly baked chocolate chip cookies invited him into the tiny kitchen. He took his wet boots and jacket off beside the door and went in to indulge himself with a glass of cold milk and warm cookies. Mom already had a plate ready for him and smiled as he bowed his head and said a quick prayer of blessing over them. He ate in silence, thinking of his adventure around town that night. Each house had been so different, each family probably even had different traditions and celebrated differently. Some families were wealthy, some had been average income, his house was on a lower level as was Belle's family.

Finishing his cookies and milk, Ben kissed his parents good-night and headed to his little room. He quickly bathed and dressed for bed. Once he was tucked under his warm blankets he cuddled up with is favorite buddy, Tye, (a stuffed, brown teddy-bear whose fur was worn thin from spending years of being dragged around by a rough little boy) and closed his sleepy eyes. Christmas fairies, sugar plums, elves and reindeer danced their way through his thoughts as he drifted off to dreamland.

He traveled far away and back in time. There was another window. As Ben neared the strange window, he cautiously peeked inside. Through this window he saw what looked like an old, rugged farm shed complete with a horse, cow and a few sheep. Then he noticed the strange people he didn't know and decided it must be Joseph and Mary with baby Jesus. From time spent going to Sunday School, he knew this must be the first Christmas and indeed how different it looked. There were no twinkling lights except for the stars, no stockings hug from a mantle, and neither were there any reindeer. It was quiet and peaceful with only the sounds of farm animals bedding down for the night. He could faintly hear the new father and mother talking over the baby but couldn't make any words out.

In another window he peered, he saw himself sitting in the little Sunday School class he shared with Belle at the town church. As he looked on, he noticed once again that it was Christmas time and the teacher was using felt-backed paper figures to tell the story - how Baby Jesus was born that night so long ago. That first Christmas had been special and had established a theme of “love and giving” for all the Christmas' to come. He noticed Belle hand him a candy cane with a note tied to it. It said, “Dear Ben, Merry Christmas! Thank you for being my friend. Love always, Belle”. Yes, he still had that note tucked away in his room at home. Christmas was all about the circle of love.

There were no more windows to gaze into in his dreams, but the thoughts of love and giving still bounced around in his little head. What greater gift was there to give than love? Why, people shopped for days trying to find just the perfect gift to express their love to that special someone in their life. In his mind, he thought it quite foolish because how can one put a value or price on love? That candy cane and note Belle had given to him expressed just as much love as the sweater he was given by his grandma or the toy gun his dad had given him. It was probably just the same with the new diamond ring the mayor gave his wife or the shiny, new bicycles he gave to his children. It didn't seem to matter how much money someone had or didn't have, no matter how big or small a gift was, it was all about the giving and love. He unconsciously smiled and continued to sleep. God always has the best plan!

The decorations we use, the warm colors we decorate with, the lights, candles and music only enhance the warmth associated with Christmas. What do people like so much about Christmas holidays? It's often said, “It's the love and happiness that's in the air!” When people feel loved - and share that love - they are happy and whole. Christmas is a time when we think more about the simple things, the things which mean the most in life. It's a time for those you love to make time to come together. We slow down long enough to enjoy each other, spend a little extra time with or money on each other, show we care a little bit better...we go out of our way to express our love. Why else does one spend so much time and effort in the wrapping of a gift - choosing the perfect paper, ribbons, flowers, name tag, etc. A gift is there. Why not throw it in a brown paper bag? No! It's that extra touch of love that seems to set everything apart from the ordinary.

Ben awoke early the next morning. It was Christmas Eve! He jumped out of bed and ran quickly to the door and shoved on his boots and jacket. Then he headed outside. He went to the living room window, pulled his pajama sleeve over his hand and wiped the icy wetness away. The lad peered into the room of his home and smiled...all was right. Running back indoors, he went to his Christmas tree and pulled down several candy canes. He found some left-over ribbon and wrapped the canes together in a bundle. Then he went into the kitchen and unwrapped the cookie plate. He took a few cookies and put them in a small clear bag then headed back to his room to get dressed. He felt so good inside, he could hardly wait to take his gift to Belle. Yes, there truly was a joy in giving. He thought about his dream last night and wondered how God must have felt on that first Christmas. Something the teacher had also said last week stuck out in his mind - it feels good to be loved by someone, but its even more special when they receive your love. He did feel good, that was for certain and he knew Belle would be grateful for the heart-felt gift even though it wasn't much.

After dressing and running a comb through his sandy-blonde hair, he sat at his little desk and jotted a quick note to Belle then sealed it with a Christmas wish for her and her family. He glanced out his window and saw it was beginning to snow again so he hurriedly ran to the front door and put on his boots, jacket, mittens and scarf. In only a few moments, he was out the door, gifts in hand, on his way to Belle's home down the street a way.

When he arrived, to his surprise he found some good-hearted person had taken a moment to decorate their door with a wreath and garland. It looked slightly magical in the falling snow. He walked up to the door but just couldn't help himself...he had to peek in the window before he knocked. He leaned over and pressed his little forehead against the cold window. He saw Belle and her mother wrapped in blankets sitting in front of a crackling fire. He looked around the room and still saw no presents anywhere. His heart was saddened but happy at the same time. Just maybe his gift would make a difference and be special! He leaned back and was about to knock on the blue door but before he did, once more he bowed his head and thanked the Lord for giving him this special friend and asked the Lord to bless her and her family in a special way this coming new year. He knocked on the door and waited patiently for someone to answer. He saw Belle peer out the same window from which he had just been looking in only a few seconds ago.

She disappeared. Then he heard her running to open the door. She flung herself into his arms and with a big, bear-hug giggled joyfully to see him. He fumbled around in his jacket until he fished out his meager gifts for her. “Merry Christmas, early!”, he said cheerfully, as she slowly put her head down. “I brought you something. It's not much.” She slowly lifted her head and Ben saw a tear trickle down her soft face. Ben wiped the tear away carefully and handed her the candy cane bundle and cookies. “I wanted to do something special for you,” Ben said. “I know you don't have much for Christmas and neither do I, but I have something anyhow.” Belle smiled and put out her hand to accept the little bundle of love. “Thank you,” she said kindly.

The snow began to come down harder and so Ben said good-bye and headed back home. He felt so good, so completely satisfied with himself. What was that scripture they had talked about in service a few weeks ago? Something about it being better to give than receive. He didn't quite understand it then, but his eyes had been opened and his heart was full of joy. He lay down on the snow-covered ground and made an angel, then jumped up and threw a few snowballs at a big hickory tree on the edge of the street. He was at complete peace with everything. All was right.

From her window, Belle watched cheerfully as her friend, Ben, played briefly in the snow then walked back down the street on toward home. She was blessed to have such a friend she thought to herself. A contented smile spread across her gentle face and she held tightly to her candy cane bundle. She took a bite of the delicious home-made cookies and said a quiet prayer to the Lord in thanks for this gift loaded with love - and for her thoughtful friend. This Christmas would be quite different for her family as far as gifts and money were concerned, but she felt as rich as anyone possibly could. Christmas was going to be great....inside, all was right.

As Christmas Eve drew to a close, the fluffy snow continued to fall to the ground quietly, painting a beautiful white blanket to display come Christmas morning. Both children were nestled safe inside their humble homes with their families. Each small child thought about what had taken place earlier that day and vowed never to forget the feelings they had experienced. Belle had been ever so grateful for the small token of love she had received and Ben was equally grateful also, for being able to give. It seemed like a complete circle of love. They both had learned valuable lessons about the true meaning of Christmas. The way God must have wanted it to be. While others might be doing Christmas their own way, both Ben and Belle knew there was no gift more simple, valuable or greater than that of love – the “circle of love” (to love and be loved) and no matter how things looked from the outside and according to the standards of the world...from the windows of their heart.....all was right.

I'm Back

2010-12-02T13:59:00.000-05:00

I've been out of the loop for quite a while now....as you can tell. But, I started writing again this week. I've already finished my 2010 Christmas story too - Christmas Windows and the Circle of Love! Wow, that's progress. If you'd like to read it for yourself, please email me or leave a comment with your email address. I'd love to share it with you too.
Hope everyone has a blessed holiday season! God bless each of you abundantly.

Just a Note

2010-09-30T09:46:00.001-04:00

There's a new chicken dish under the recipe tab if you'd like to check it out. Hope everyone has a wonderful day. Live it to the fullest...as unto the Lord. Live, laugh, love. Live life abundantly....no, MORE abundantly.

Just Saying....

2010-09-24T10:58:00.001-04:00

Isn't it amazing how kid's Christian adventure stories, like Adventures in Odyssey, still "speak" to you even when you're a grown up? The lessons we learn as children often times need a refresher course later in life. Maybe that's why the Lord gives us children...so we don't lose sight of the most important things. For example, how many times has your child been in a fight with one of his or her playmates - then only a short few minutes passes and their best pals again. Child-like! Even a child knows its not worth it to get mad, hold a grudge, and get bitter. I think the Lord is constantly showing us these little truths and sometimes we don't even recognize it as adults. We "mature" and all too often become filled with fear, find it hard to trust, and we even build walls. Doesn't the Bible say something about coming as little children? Click on www.whitsend.org and listen to a story today....who knows what you'll "hear" if you'll listen. It just might change the way you're looking at your situation right now. Maybe our problems and situations don't really change that much when we're adults...we just make them look bigger and scarier.

(P.S. You're kids won't think bad of you if they find out you're listening! lol)

Hot-Rod Warning!

2010-09-23T10:46:00.000-04:00

During last night's Bible study, Pastor was talking about how the devil will make you think he's powerful, got it all together, etc., but in all actuality he knows he's the loser no matter what. Pardon me if you think this is a bit carnal, but I leaned over to my husband and said, "Kind of like one of those hot-rods that look "to the T" - you get in and there's no engine."

This pic is for "Pops"

That's a good way to look at this defeated foe for many reasons. First of all, the package he presents to you always appears to be top-notch. The pleasures with which he entices people come packaged appropriately to appeal to our flesh and are always served up on beautiful silver platters. He makes the man on the billboard look so handsome and the female strikes a dazzling pose. His platters may be beautiful, but they're always empty when you get right down to it. Secondly, he presents the best he has because he tries to make a good impression to win you over. (Think about this, he does present you with the very best he has, while Jesus saves the best he has for eternity. The pleasures of sin are but for a season. Well, that's another devotion in itself...we'll save it for later.) After all, who doesn't look at the bright red sports-car and dream of driving around town with their hair flying in the breeze. You wouldn't feel the same about the neighborhood jalopy. So, remember that whatever you're presented with by this scheming loser will be the best that it will ever get. Don't expect anything but degradation from here on out if you accept what he's selling. Finally, he'll even take you to the races and put you at the starting line. Won't you look fine in that top-of-the-line, smooth sailing hot-rod. You're all psyched out about it and jump in to make it to the finish-line first....only to get in a realize that the motor is that of an ole VW model or there may be no engine at all. Here you are, you've taken the bait, he has you in his grip, and you're not going to win. It has been all for naught!
If you're finding yourself in this picture, stop! It doesn't have to end like that. Jesus takes trade-ins and he'll be happy to take you on. You see, the sly, old fox puts you in the driver's seat and allows you to make a wreck of things, but Jesus wants you to be the passenger and allow him to escort you through each day. And, there's another secret here: Jesus ALWAYS wins!
My friend, don't be caught off guard. Be alert to the tactics of the enemy of your soul. Don't be fooled by his imitations! There is a prize at the finish line, but only for those who are riding shot-gun with Jesus.

Think About It

2010-09-21T14:33:00.000-04:00

Today's "Think About It": The bad things which happen to us in life, will ultimately point us toward the perfect plan

God has for us if we follow along.

In His time he maketh ALL things beautiful!

Making It Through the Gate

2010-09-20T16:17:00.000-04:00

So, I'm child-less for the moment....3 teenagers less in the house makes for a very QUIET and uninteresting day (of course, that's minus the mischief 2 house pets can get into in a day)...already counting down 13 more days left till they return. Wow!
This weekend, we took our children to the airport for their 2-week vacation to Louisiana. We arrived early to the airport to get a gate-pass for my husband and me....only to realize I was "wallet-less." Immediately, my husband went out to the parking deck to search for it; he came back empty handed. Then, we sent our eldest out to do a re-check and he came back fruitless also. We couldn't imagine what had happened to it but finally came to the conclusion that it had slipped out of the truck unnoticed somewhere along the way. I was not allowed to get a gate-pass without my license. (Remember this!) So, after calling to inform the bank of our misfortune and getting everything closed out, I sat there wondering how in the world it happened. A day went by and we told our story. Then, when getting into the vehicle to leave home, my husband noticed something wrong with the door handle casing. Upon further inspection, we realized that we hadn't let my wallet slip out unnoticed, but rather someone had broken in very discreetly. It took us a while to notice.
Anyhow, I started thinking about this situation. You know, the enemy is a sly, old fox. He comes in like a thief. While going your way, thinking everything is fine...all the sudden you realize something important to you is missing. Maybe your joy, or peace, etc. It isn't a theft of which you were an eye-witness. He doesn't always come in like a flood. Remember the wolf in sheep's clothing? He can be quite patient and it may come as a shock to you when you sit back and wonder, "When did that happen?" Needless to say, it is extremely important to take inventory on a regular basis. Hold those things close which are important or dear to you. Don't let anything steal it away from you. The enemy is come to kill, steal and destroy. There are certain things he especially targets...those things which without you cannot make it through THE GATE. I think this was a great spiritual lesson for me and I hope you can find room to add it to your school-book of life.

New Recipe!!!!

2010-09-15T16:58:00.002-04:00

Check out the Rainbow Chicken Fried Rice dish I fixed for supper tonight. It was a hit!!!!! It's on my Chicken All-We-Got Recipe page.

Is Jesus Cooking Your Dinner?

2010-09-13T08:26:00.000-04:00

If God has told you to do something and it seems totally crazy, ironic, hopeless, etc. - just go ahead and do it anyhow. Now, I know you might be thinking...that's so "not-impressive" - and I know it may seem a given but, have do you ever feel like throwing in the towel? Giving up? ?What's the use? Shoving your head in the sand? I'm sure we've all had those feelings at one time or another in our lives. Well, I've got some encouraging news to share with you today. Listen up!
Remember the story of the disciples toiling all night and catching no fish? Then Jesus commanded them to go back out? They were fishermen, they knew when the fish were biting and when was the right time to be on the water. And, at that time of the day when Jesus spoke to them....the fish weren't biting. Nevertheless, the disciples took him at his word. And what happened? They came back to land with nets so full of fish that it seemed the nets would break. OK, we all know that part. Let me get to the good stuff.
When they got back to land, Jesus was on the shore with a fire ready, and fish cooking. They had obeyed what the Master had said, had gotten more-than-enough fish, and now they were about to be treated to supper too! Here's the catch....obedience. You see, we have to keep on keeping on, even when it seems hopeless.
If you're having a rough day, week, year, etc., just hang in there and follow what the Lord has commanded of you. Don't give up or give in! Who knows, Jesus might already be sitting on the shore preparing you a meal you'll never forget. Who wouldn't want to partake of a meal prepared by Him? The work's already done...just take Him at His word. What an honor to sit next to the chef of that meal! Is Jesus cooking your dinner? Hang in there!

Thank You

2010-09-09T09:46:00.000-04:00

Wow! I have had so many people visit my blog the last couple days...I'm so happy. Thanks to everyone who commented on my tribute to Patti, she was a beautiful person. I hope each of you will take time to come back and visit again now that you've found my page. I pray that something you read will touch your heart and give you strength and encouragement for the day. May God bless each of you in a special way. Let's continue to remember, life is short and we must make the most of each day. Thanks again.

In Honor of Patti Gleaton Coffman

2010-09-07T22:11:00.001-04:00

I want to dedicate this post to my life-long friend, Patti Gleaton Coffman. She was my best friend, mentor, pal, and on and on through my early life and teenage years. I remember being so upset because she decided to get married...lol. BUT she continued to be there for me. Then we were both married, raising families and didn't spend as much time together, but whenever we were together there was always that bond. I guess if I had to give a definition of a friend, I would without hesitation put her in the list. She touched so many hearts and lives without even trying too hard.
As with everyone, this ordeal with Patti was a shock and happened so quickly. It definitely makes you wake up and think about what is important and what isn't as important as you may have thought it was. We're none promised tomorrow, being the first thing I would list. Secondly, friends are a gift from God to help us through this life and make us better people. We need not take each other for granted. And thirdly, life is too short to allow anything to come between a friendship. Then there are little things - like telling each other how much you love them on a regular basis, for you know not when you're time is up. Don't take anything for granted!
God bless our friends, mentors, those who have touched our lives. Help us to live each day to the fullest and not save words of love and affirmation for a "later" time because that time may never come. And may God bless Patti, her family and friends! If he chooses to give her back to us or whether he chooses to make heaven a little more livelier place with her around - she'll be in good hands because she'll be in His hands. Let us all pattern our lives after the way she lived hers - giving, smiling, being positive, and being there for others...being a friend. We all need each other to survive.

Whole-Heartily......REALLY!

2010-09-01T15:30:00.000-04:00

So, we started the school year today. Yesterday we made preparations such as gathering supplies, organizing books, desks, etc. I bought each of the kids a small dry-erase board to use for notes and such. One of my children wrote at the bottom of his board, "whatever you do, do it whole-heartily." WOW! Boy was I surprised when I caught a glimpse of it last night before bed. No prompting or anything like that. If that can come out of a "child" (sh, don't tell him I said that), how much more should we as adults try to keep that concept in mind.
It's easy to get side-tracked and begin to just go through the motions. You know, I tell my children all the time to listen with their brain and not just their ears. That's what we do at times. We listen but we're not REALLY listening. We're serving, but not REALLY serving. We're giving, but not REALLY giving. We're praying but not REALLY praying. You see, we must do it whole-heartily. There is a difference and the results are definitely noticeable.
What if we woke up each day, ready to live that day unto the Lord and do everything to the best of our ability. What would happen if we didn't get side-tracked and become robots doing life? What if we put as much effort into spiritual things as we do temporal things. Don't you think we would be better Christians for doing so?
Just something to ponder upon. I REALLY want to make the right choices and serve the Lord with my whole heart! God bless, thanks for reading...please consider sharing this blog with your friends and family.

Choose Your Friends Wisely

2010-08-31T23:34:00.000-04:00

We often tell our children: "Watch who associate with!" I thought about this as I read the 18th chapter of John. I wonder how Judas felt standing in the midst of those he brought to Jesus? I wonder if this was the first time he had not been standing with Jesus? Did he feel like a traitor? Then there is Peter, he followed Jesus as they took him away to the high priest. However, he stopped short to warm himself beside a fire with a group of officers. I wonder what was going through his mind? The other disciple that went in with Jesus to the high priest told the damsel to bring in Peter, yet when she went to him, he denied knowing Jesus. Later, a person kin to Malchus (the one whom Peter cut off his ear) asked Peter about being one of Jesus' followers and he denied it. True to the words of Jesus, Peter denied the Lord three times. I wonder what would have happened if Peter would have stayed at Jesus' side. Would he have been stronger? Did the influence of those he stood by have a stronger pull than he was able to overcome? Was it peer pressure?
This is a good scripture to share along with the warning to watch who you keep company with. Whether we realize it or not, people we spend time with have an affect upon us. It can be for the good or bad. It doesn't stop with the end of adolescence either; it continues on right through adulthood. We must continuously try to make good choices. If you find a particular person pulls you down, make a mental note to put a gap between you and them. We must do whatever we can to make sure we are as close to Jesus as we can be. We must also consider the reputation that comes along with those we run around with. If you think it doesn't make a difference, just look at Judas...how do you feel about him? You see, he made a reputation for himself by selling Jesus out. Would you name your child Judas?
Let this be a reminder to each of us. Choose friends wisely. If you're not on the same side as Jesus, you might want to consider a re-arrangement for your soul's good. It isn't worth it to by caught up with the wrong side and lose out with the most important friend you could ever have. What a friend we have in Jesus! Take a survey today...do you need a friend shift?

Question?

2010-08-26T10:43:00.000-04:00

Ok, here's a question for today...what would you say is the biggest/simplest blessing that you often take for granted?

Just A Taste Part 2

2010-08-24T00:16:00.000-04:00

OK, back to the fruit. There comes a time in our Christian walk when we must begin to produce fruit. The Lord has said the tree which doesn't produce...will not be. We are charged to bear much fruit! Why? It goes back to the concept of God making us a witness, not only a witness but a good one. A good tree brings forth good fruit.
The good fruit which we bear comes from Jesus and the purpose of it is to share with others. Jesus - in you, through you, to others. God can do things through us! He can use the good fruit we produce to bless others. We are part of the body and must produce fruit to aid in ministering and encouraging other dependents of this body. We are not to be an island to ourselves! A tree cannot eat its own fruit, but must be willing to give it away. Jesus exemplified this while on this earth...he went about ministering to those in need. He didn't seek to receive but to give! The good fruit you bear can help those around you.
I challenge each of us to think about it...are we producing good fruit? Are we producing all that we can for the Kingdom? Are you hoarding your fruit until it rots or are you giving it away and allowing others to be nurtured by it? These are serious, heart-searching questions. God has given us the privilege of bearing fruit so he can be magnified through it. What better testimony than that because you gave, another person was blessed. My mind goes to the song that says, "thank you, for giving to the Lord, I am a life that was changed..." Our purpose is to be connected to the vine (God) and be a productive branch which produces good fruit so those passing by can glean and taste to see that the Lord is good.

New recipe added!

2010-08-23T17:24:00.002-04:00

Drop by my recipe page and check out Chick-ka-bobs! :-) Enjoy!!!!

Just A Taste Part 1

2010-08-21T18:25:00.000-04:00

I've heard the term "bear fruit" multiple times in my life and never really gave it much thought until recently. It was during a sermon that the Lord opened my eyes to see this in a new light. Maybe you've already mastered this and its old news, however, I'd like to share it anyhow for those ears it might be new to.
God wants us to bear fruit. We cannot bear fruit except we be connected to him. He is the vine, we are the branches....branches can't produce fruit without the vine. That's logical enough! The fruit which we bear identifies us, it speaks loudly to those passing by as to whom we belong. More to come......check back soon! Think about it while you're waiting....

Who's Your Team Manager

2010-08-18T15:03:00.001-04:00

Feels like I've been out of the loop forever now, but things happen. It's amazing how many curve balls life can bring in just a short time...and I wondered just how many God would allow to come before he thought it was enough. Anyhow, after pondering those thoughts for a few moments, I decided there was only one sure way to be ready for it all. If you're finding those curve balls of life coming your way, let me share this with you. The safest way to knock those balls out of the park for a home-run is to have the right manager for your team - JESUS! As long as he's your boss, no matter how many pitches are thrown off the plate, you'll still be batting 100. I don't know what people without the Lord do in times of tragedy, sickness, loss, etc. I wouldn't want to go through one day, no, I wouldn't want to go through one single minute without Jesus by my side. Just to know that he has everything under control, and that he doesn't expect me to do anything but trust him, gives me a calm assurance. God is so faithful!!! With him on your team, you'll never lose...talk about a Dream Team. If he's not your manager, you might want to change teams right now, don't wait for a new season to begin. He makes all things new!!!

I'm Still Here

2010-08-07T11:27:00.000-04:00

In case you're wondering what happened to me and if I dropped off the face of the earth....well, here I am, I'm still here. The last two weeks following my children's car accident has proven to be quite hectic, busy, stressful, well, you get the picture. I've been on the road every day with doctor visits, therapy, shopping for a new vehicle, insurance companies, and on and on. I think at this point I need a week of with some TLC especially for me (okay, I'm just dreaming). However, God has been good to us in the midst of it all. Allyssa came through her nose surgery well and is on her way to recovery. Therapy is going well also. We have a replacement vehicle now too. God is so faithful to look out for his regular customers!
I read a saying today that I wanted to share with everyone. It we do it this way, we'll have great results, especially in living for God. Here it is: Expect it, Believe It, LIVE IT! If you can expect it and believe that God will do it, then LIVE like its going to happen. Having faith is living it! Think about it and apply it to your own life. I'm going to give it a try myself. God bless each of you, thank you for all the prayers you've prayed for my children, now please put me on your list...close to the top. Thanks. :-)

Been There, Done That

2010-08-01T13:07:00.000-04:00

It's no fun to go through those desert times when you feel like God is nowhere to be found. At times like these, we feel all alone and disheartened. It's also at this time the devil whispers some of his famous lies into your ears. "Where's your God? I thought he took care of his children? Has he failed you?" etc. If you've ever been there, you know what I'm talking about. I'm glad to know that he is ALWAYS there - even when we don't feel him.
Today I want to take a moment to write this post and dedicate it to one of my friends who is hurting (you know who you are) and also to anyone else who is roaming around in a valley. You know, it is during these times that we gain a notch in our belt or a T-shirt that says "Been there, done that!" God allows us to go through certain things so that we will be able to help someone else who walks through that same valley at a later time. You can't fully "understand" what someone is going through UNTIL you've walked down that road yourself.
So, while you're waiting for the Lord to answer, just learn all you can about that valley and be patient. If God brought you to it, he will bring you through it. Trust in him, lean not to your own understanding, acknowledge him...and he will direct your paths. You'll be walking up the mountain shortly!!!

Scars

2010-07-31T12:38:00.000-04:00

"I got this scar on my nose for you..." said my teenage daughter this morning as she passed through the room. She was referring to us getting a new vehicle when she said, "..for you..." - goodness knows, that's an odd way to look at it. But it started my noggin to thinking...of my Lord....holding out his hands and saying, "I got this scar for you..." How sobering! What love!!! God can do anything, so we know he could have allowed the scars to fade away, yet he didn't. I would suppose it might be because we humans often need reminded of things.
You see, scars can be a good thing and serve multiple purposes. They can remind us of what NOT to do again and they can remind us of what we made it through and that God has allowed us to heal. Scars serve as a reminder of what has happened in the past. There are many people in this world today who bare scars which tell stories of where they've been or what they've been through. My children can point to their scars and tell you exactly what they were doing when they were wounded. There are those who have been scarred mentally or emotionally, yet the scars are just as real as the ones which can be touched.
The most famous scars, however, are the ones Christ received when he was crucified for you and me. Oh, the many things they remind us of....salvation, healing, deliverance, hope, etc. Yes, when we think of his scars, we are always reminded that they were put there for us. We were the reason! And though Christ could have called down angels to "save" him, he went through the agony and pain - for you and me. And they will never fade away, he's allowed them to serve as a reminder to all who choose to trust in him. I hope you'll remember this the next time you see a "scar" - Jesus loves you and me. OH, HOW HE LOVES US!!!

It's a Wonderful Life

2010-07-28T12:12:00.001-04:00

It's a wonderful life!

How blessed we are to have a God who cares so much for us. He has gone out of his way to put extra-special things in our lives from day to day to remind us of how fond he is of us. Yes, we are the apple of his eye!

He has given us unconditional love, forgiveness, security, etc. But, once again, I want to remind us of the simple things he has given us. These things also show his love for us. For instance, the tiny butterfly fluttering in the summer breeze, or fluffy birds chirping from their perch on a dogwood tree - simple, yet appealing to our sight. What about the gurgling sounds of rushing water flowing over smooth gray stones in a river....or the sound of giggling children on a merry-go-round - these sounds are delightful to our ears. Oh, touching the face of a loved one or being embraced by a friend...yes, touch is appealing. The taste of a wild honey suckle or a luscious blackberry growing along an old farming fence....taste is another simple thing. Finally, there is the smell of freshly baked chocolate-chip cookies or a favorite perfume which evoke special feelings of someone special in your life.

These are the simplest of things...but God has made it all possible by giving us our senses. It's amazing that he took time to go into such detail for us. He wanted us to enjoy life. Oh, how he loves you and me!!!

Take a moment to use your senses right now, from where you're sitting...focus on these abilities given by our Maker. His love is everywhere and you ARE special.

Just a Note

2010-07-26T22:30:00.000-04:00

Hi, to all of my readers out there. First, I want to tell you that I've added a few check boxes at the bottom of each post where you can click and let us know what you thought/felt about that post. Please just click! Also, please sign up as a reader of this post. Let others know that you're following along - this will help me spread the word quickly.
Thanks, as always, for your comments and support. I hope something you find here blesses and inspires you. God bless!

What's Your Position?

2010-07-26T14:54:00.000-04:00

Think about it...what posture does the entry level clerk take on when he receives the message that he is being promoted? What about the salesman who has just been notified that he is "Salesman of the Month"? What about the man who has just found out that he is going to be a daddy in nine months? They tend to stand a little bit straighter and have more of a spring in their step. They have been taken to a higher level in life!
What about the man in the Bible who received his sight as Jesus passed through the town, what about Naaman, or even Peter when he received the keys to the Kingdom of God? What a difference Jesus made in the lives of these men! What about Rahab, when her house was the only left standing on the days the walls of Jericho fell? What about Esther when she saved her people from the wicked plot the king's closest men conjured? What about Mary after she was visited by the angel and told she bore the Christ Child?
All these are examples of men and women who "moved up" in life. You see, when you finally allow God to step into your life, he won't leave you like he found you. His purpose for you is to "move up!" Something always happens when you move closer to the top. Something happens within you when you make a move toward the top. There is an excitement, great expectations, etc. You think positively! People around you notice a difference! That's why Jesus said that we would be "witnesses" - everything about us will change when we let God move us closer to him and others will take notice too.
What's your position? God is no respecter of persons and what he has done for others, he will do for you. Are you ready for a new walk? A new out-look on life? A fresh desire? A new anointing? Let God give you an extreme make-over! Maybe you're bogged down by the cares of this life, or feel like you are sinking, going down for your last time. If so, hold up your hands and ask God to take hold of your life. He will pick you up and place you on a rock - He is the Rock! If you just need the gentle touch of God to nudge you forward, he will do that too. He's calling you today....will you move closer? Stand tall and be counted as one of God's mighty men (women) - live life to the fullest - close to Him. James 4:8 "Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you..."

Blisters and Calluses

2010-07-24T17:27:00.001-04:00

Remember raking fallen leaves in your yard back in the fall, getting blisters from the old wooden handle...or having that least favorite pair of shoes rubbing the back of your heal until it becomes raw...well, if those two circumstances don't ring a bell, I'm sure you can find one where you can relate to this. Blisters are caused by constant friction or irritation. A blister can be very sore.
After a blister is formed, it often turns into a callus if the friction continues. A callus is formed over time and is caused by the damaged skin toughening up so it can better handle repeated irritation. Because calluses are nothing more than extremely tough skin, they develop no feeling and thus do not hurt.
Before you think this is a foot treatment post or something of the sort, I want to quickly relate this to people's feelings. Someone can continuously wound another until that person's "blister" becomes a "callus." Most people can only take so much abuse, mistreatment or hurt until it is no longer a blister, but a callus has begun to form. I suppose you could say that's kind of like the phrase that's often used - "putting up walls". People don't like to get hurt over and over so they start protecting themselves the best way they know how.
Think about it. Are your words or actions causing someone else pain (blisters) or suffering? Imagine the ugly rough spots (calluses) on their heart that are a result of something you did or said.
Do you want to be responsible for this? For that person not "feeling" anymore? It's something to seriously consider. We should be careful of the effects our words or actions might have. Remember, when we wound one another, we wound the body of Christ. This is something we all should keep in mind.
A lot of work must be done to rid one of a callus. Layers and layers must come off before ever seeing the original skin way below. It's must easier to take care of the blister from day one than to allow it to go on and on until it causes a callus. If you know you have done or said something to hurt or wound another, make it right as soon as possible. Apply that balm which will heal and soften the area. You see, the Bible says "..blessed are the peacemakers..." and that's the essence of what the balm is. Don't allow a lot of water to go under the proverbial bridge without making peace and allowing a time of healing.
Words wound, actions irritate...be careful! Just something to think about. Think how much money podiatrist and pedicurists make, there are a lot of calluses in the world today. Help someone heal...don't be the cause of unnecessary friction. Choose your words and actions carefully!

Just Another Simple Thing

2010-07-22T15:00:00.001-04:00

Today, I just want to post that I'm so thankful to serve a God who is extremely magnificent in EVERY way. So thankful for his all-seeing eye that is constantly on his children. Today two of my children were in a car accident where a man ran a red light. Though there were minor injuries and my vehicle is probably messed up pretty badly, it could have been so much worse than it was. And more than anything, I'm just thankful that my children are still in this world with me. Once again, this is something that we often times take for granted - (I've been guilty too, I'm not pointing a finger without some pointing back at me.) It's the simple, every-day things that we must remember to thank God for too.
So, while I'm thanking the Lord for his protective hand and thanking him for my children, I invite you to stop a minute. Think about it, hasn't he done something like that for you today? If you're reading this, I think he has. Thank him for it!!!

One more thing, please be careful when you drive and talk on the phone...just one second makes a difference.

One At a Time

2010-07-21T12:40:00.000-04:00

Live for today, putting one foot in front of the other...that's the aim for today. In the Lord's prayer, he taught us to take one day at a time when he said, "give us this day, our daily bread."
Though you may feel like you can't go another mile...just take a single step...that is what walking is all about. One step...then another. Like on a high-wire, take a step, regain your balance and composure, then take another. One second, then another. One minute, then another. One hour, then another. Sometime we have to break it down quite extensively, but God made it possible for us to do so.
Think about the toddler who is just beginning to walk. He doesn't think about taking 10 steps, he only thinks about "this" one. He puts all his thoughts, heart and energy into that single step before ever thinking about another.
Lord, help me to remember today, that you'll walk with me each step of the way. Whether I can go only one step in a minute's time or 10, you will be patient and never leave my side. As long as I hold on to your hand and allow you to lead the way, you'll walk at my pace. Thanks for not expecting more than a days worth out of me at a time. I commit this very second, this single step, to you and know that you will see me through because you are always faithful and cannot fail. And if I should fall, you'll be there to catch me and keep me from all harm. Your gentle hands are such a comfort and in them I will trust. Here I go, taking the first step with you at my side...I can do this with your help.

What If...

2010-07-19T22:02:00.005-04:00

What if your calls were never returned...
What if your email was never answered...
What if your texts weren't responded to...
What if you asked forgiveness and got no response...
What if there was no conversation for weeks...
Would you think something was wrong with that relationship?

I wonder if God feels this way at times?

Your relationship with him is the most important of all. And, by the way, God will never be the one responsible for not doing the above...it will be us to let him down. He is faithful, we are human...make sure you don't leave this friend hanging!

God, help me to respond to you. I don't want to turn a deaf ear, snub my nose at you, or turn my back on you. Please help me to be more faithful than ever before! You are my everything, and I want to show my love to you by communicating with you daily. I don't ever want you to have to figure out where I'm at and exactly how I feel. Thank you for always being forgiving, no matter what I've done. I love you~

Let Jesus Shine Through

2010-07-17T18:14:00.001-04:00

What an experience it is to serve the homeless and less-fortunate around our towns. Today we passed out 100 BBQ chicken sandwich lunches downtown. Although the weather was hot and humid, it was a refreshing couple hours! You see, no matter how "bad" you have it, there is always someone who is worse off than you. Giving a lunch and a bottle of water to someone on the street is so rewarding. And that's not all they are given...they are showed love, given a smile, pat on the back, a "God bless you!", and are offered a listening ear for a few minutes of their day. Those are things that can't be bought, but must be given from a willing heart.
Sweat may be pouring down a sun-weathered face, such a sadness in the eyes, some may be dirty and smell a bit too; but, all in all, they are beautiful people. The smile that suddenly bursts from the down-cast face is such a blessing. Some do not know how to respond to acts of Godly love and sacrifice, and they may even try to take advantage of a good thing. However, their souls are so worth reaching out yet again. I've seen tumors, blinded eyes, hurting and lost people - your heart just longs for them to know Jesus.
While it may seem that what is being done makes no difference, I beg to differ. Every time a lunch is served, a hand is shaken, a neck is hugged or a prayer is prayed....a seed is planted. Only God can give the harvest! We may not even see the final outcome of those who pass us on days like today, what might they be when God gets hold of them? He never leaves someone like He found them. That's the way it has to be viewed - plant the seed and let God over-see the rest. While we may see them come to Christ and watch them transform right in front of our eyes - there is also the possibility that we may never cross paths with them again. That's what is SO IMPORTANT about making every moment count.
So, I challenge you to do something to make a difference! It not only helps the one in need, it will help you. I've seen it over and over again. Go out and feed a sack lunch to a homeless person, buy a less-fortunate family school supplies for their children, buy a candy bar for the cashier who checks you out at the store...the bottom line is to show them the love of our Savior. Jesus went about doing good for and to those who needed it....that's what we need to practice doing...following his example. Make a conscious effort to make a difference in someones life today...let Jesus shine through you. You are the only Jesus some people will ever see...what influence are you having?

From a Tiny Spark

2010-07-16T22:37:00.000-04:00

What a refreshing time we had tonight at our church family night. It's so great to be with brothers and sisters having food and fellowship together. Made me think of the song, Family Of God. Yes, I'm glad I'm a part of the family of God and how wonderful it will be when we all get to heaven - hey, there's another song too...When We All Get to Heaven. WOW!!!
It is amazing how you can get a hand-full of people together and it starts a spark which will grow and grow if someone will keep feeding the fire. I read a stat today that said an average of only 10% of a congregation supports the pastor and backs him up, supports the church with their finances and sacrifice. That's not a very impressing percentage! In fact, I'd hate to be part of the 90% and have their reputation.
So, what percent do you desire to be in your church? Remember, your church is what you make it, what you dream it to be, and comes to reality only by what you do about it and how much you pray for it. You can make a difference...for the better or worse. Which will you chose? There were even both types of people among Jesus' 12 disciples. Choose to be positive! Make a difference...what if you're part of the 10% and you throw in the towel? Who's going to do your part? Don't be the determining factor of whether it sinks or sails. When you decide to give it your all, your enthusiasm will rub off on others and the spark will grow into an unstoppable fire.
I'm glad I'm a part of the best family on earth! So thankful for all my brothers and sisters. I want to be a fire-starter...a positive, hard-working, member of the family who believes that God can do anything through us if we will do whatever it takes to see it come to pass. What about you?

Chocolate Covered

2010-07-14T13:15:00.001-04:00

Chocolate covered cherries or strawberries, pretzels, ice-cream...asparagus....as long as its covered in chocolate most people will love it. Of course, there are a few exceptions. Some people just don't like chocolate at all! I know it's hard to imagine, but it is true. However, we're talking today about the people who would try to eat a piece of cardboard if it was covered in chocolate. OK, don't take me quite that literally!
Come with me if you will to a "bad" day you've had recently. For instance, you woke up tired, stubbed your big toe as you got out of bed, your hair wouldn't cooperate, your car wouldn't start, and you ended up being late for work so your boss fired you. Got the picture? BAD DAY!!!! Now, what if you could cover that terrible day in chocolate? Would it be "not-so-bad" after all? Remember, we've decided almost everything tastes better covered in chocolate. I'm sure you're wondering now how you can cover a bad day in chocolate; the answer is simple.
When you take a piece of chocolate from one of those romantic heart boxes around Valentine's Day, you usually have no idea what is on the inside. It may be a cream, nugget, caramel, nut...you never know until you bite into it. All you know is that something is there and its encased in beautiful, decadent chocolate. The same thing can be applied to our days and situations; we don't know what will be "in" them. However, each day is covered with something better than chocolate.
No matter what we go through from day to day, we can savor each one because of the joy of the Lord. I used to think of "joy" as being happy, bubbly, etc. However, joy has nothing to do with happiness when it all boils down to it. Joy is the chocolate of the Christian's life! Joy says that no matter what is going on or what happens in my life today - God is in control and he knows what is best for me. Each and every day can be a chocolate-covered-something for the child of God. Another ingredient in that delicious covering is faith. No matter what is "in" your day, joy and faith are enveloping every detail of it and you can eat yourself through every rough spot in the road.
Whether you're having a chocolate-covered bad-day, or week, or year...it is bearable and even sometimes delicious because its covered in the joy of the Lord and faith in his promises. There may be days when you need a double-dip but, you can make it through! Chocolate covered...yes, life is like a box of chocolates.

Chocolate or Sprinkles?

2010-07-13T09:18:00.001-04:00

Step into almost any donut shop and you might possibly hear this simple question. "Chocolate or Sprinkles?" They are regulars, the ones that are most always there. Both are rich, sweet and leave you licking your fingers clean; however, I dare to say that Chocolate will always be the favorite. Its not fancy, no, there's nothing showy about it. In fact, it is what it is. No frills or complications, just simply delicious.
Love is kind of like that too. Love doesn't require a lot of attention and fanfare. It is simple. How do you describe the taste of a chocolate donut? Think about it. There are very few words which can describe it well enough. It is something that one just has to taste and see for himself. In much the same way, love is a hard word to describe and must be "tasted" or experienced. In the Bible, it simply defines love as God - God is love. Here's another interesting passage from the Message version: I Cor. 13:4-8a - Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. Love never dies.
You see, it's nothing fancy. Consider if you will, a child's teddy bear. After years of loving, carrying it around everywhere, sleeping with it, etc., it can become ragged and often times be in need of repair. An eye may go missing, an ear may have a slight rip, it may even get dirty, yet it is a child's prized possession. Why? The bear never complains about the journey, its always there to listen and comfort, and loves unconditionally. It also never puts up a fuss when left behind, but waits patiently to once again rejoin its pal. Love.
It is a very simple thing, yet can be quite difficult to explain or describe. All a person knows is that if they have tasted real love, they never forget it. It doesn't need any fancy accessories, no sprinkles, just taste and see. Yum!

Forgiveness

2010-07-12T15:11:00.000-04:00

Just a little something for you to chew on today. Sometimes Jesus used parables to get his point across. Then, there were times when Jesus just got straight to the point and said what he wanted loud and clear. One such issue was that of forgiveness (example: Mark 11:25). How many times in your life have you had to ask someone to forgive you? If you're like me, it's been many times. Not only do we need forgiveness from God, we need it from others. Isn't it wonderful to know that all we must do is ask the Lord to forgive us - and he immediately does? We don't have to work for it, or "prove" ourselves worthy of it. He just says, "OK", and its over and done with. However, often times it's not that simple with man. God forgives and forgets...we lack the "ability to forget" part. When we say, I forgive you, but I won't forget and won't allow you to get close again.....is that really forgiveness? I wish I had the answers, but I don't. I just want to put something out there for you to think about. Pastor often says there is no such thing as an unforgiving-Christian. We shake our heads in agreement, but the sad thing is, there are those people out there who aren't willing to forgive. There is nothing quite like the sinking feeling of asking forgiveness and not receiving it. Have you ever been in that situation?
The Bible says we must forgive if we want to be forgiven. Forgiveness operates backwards and forwards. Remember, when someone is asking forgiveness from you...your future is on the line. If we don't forgive those who come to us, then later down the road, we're going to stumble over the pile that we've - figuratively speaking -pushed under the rug. Most importantly, we'll then be dealing with God - the one who says he'll forgive if we only ask. He's placed one stipulation on that promise though...if we will, he will. Don't be guilty of messing up God's plans, the lives of others, and your own because you won't forgive.

Who Is Like The Lord

2010-07-11T20:47:00.001-04:00

Who is like the Lord? NOBODY! The Lord is gentle, understanding, considerate, patient, long-suffering, and full of love. He over-looks every fault, failure, short-coming, and flaw; in spite of it all, he loves us. When we mess up, he is always quick to forgive and forget, and never turns his back on us. No matter how many times it takes us to learn a lesson, he is right there by our side, cheering us on until we get it right. He is a friend who sticks closer than any other. He loves like no other. He thinks we're the best, no matter what others may think. No, there is NOBODY like our Lord! With his loving hands, he takes us and molds us like clay on the potter's wheel. No matter how low and useless we may feel, God can make something beautiful out of us if we will let him have control. No matter what, he is always there with open arms. No matter how many times you hurt him, he'll say, "I forgive you." He doesn't hold grudges and doesn't try to get one-up on you. He's the perfect friend!!! I'm sure glad that he is mine. Though I have a long way to go, I want to be more like my Lord...what a role model to have. Who is like the Lord? NOBODY!!!!

New Page - Chicken Recipes!!!

2010-07-09T13:01:00.000-04:00

Just in case you haven't noticed, I've added a few different pages to my blog. I've now added the recipe page that so many are requesting. Chicken, chicken, chicken.....recipes for just about anything "chicken". Hope you enjoy! Check back often for new ideas as I'll be posting as I cook. The first recipe is for Nuggets & Spaghetti....the family loved it!
Once again, if you're following my page...PLEASE let me know by signing up to follow or using the Facebook box. Thanks and have a wonderful day!!!

Who's There?

2010-07-07T14:25:00.001-04:00

OK guys, I know there are more of you out there from my counter....but I'd love to see your face! Please take a moment to join the Simply Put Crew over on the right hand side....I'd appreciate it. This will also help me spread the word...when others see you are following...especially on Facebook. So, take a moment and do me this little favor. Thanks for your support and friendship! God bless each of you.

My Crown

2010-07-05T23:14:00.001-04:00

Each day I live, I try

To do the best I can,

See, I'm striving for a crown

That's my eternal plan

No treasures here for me,

I don't expect to stay,

Just add them to my crown, Dear Lord

That is what I pray

I only desire to be

A servant through and through,

So help me to be yielding

As I closely follow you

And when rough times come

Help me to pass each test,

Dear Lord, as I try harder

To do what you think best

During those times it seems

The crown weighs down my head,

I can hardly stand alone

But I remember what you said

Your grace is sufficient

You're all I'll ever need,

So bravely I lift my head

And bow on bended knee

One day it will be done

My crown will be complete,

Yes, it will be worth it all

When I finally sit at your feet

Thank You American Soldier

2010-07-02T11:21:00.003-04:00

Happy 4th of July!

Let us take the time this weekend, while we're gathered together with friends and family, to stop and pray for our military men who are off serving and fighting for our freedom. Let us honor them for they are true heroes. I would like to make this post a memorial to all the service men and women I know personally - but also to all those who you know personally. On this holiday, let's stop and say a prayer for their safety and for our country and its leaders.

Don't forget to say a prayer and a thank-you to all those who have already given their time also. These special people deserve a medal of honor just for being selfless. They put their own families and pleasures on hold - thinking of others instead. Some are still with us, some have already passed from this life....you are all heroes. I applaud each one for making a difference and for being committed to a cause greater than yourself. To those service men in my life, I appreciate every sacrifice you make or made for my family on a daily basis. Here are just a few I'd like to personally honor:

Chase Peloquin (serving now)

Nathan Peterson (serving now)

Joshua Anderson

Curly Smith

Robert McCloud

Charles Walters (deceased)

If you'd like to honor someone, please leave a comment and do so. God bless our soldiers!

FYI

2010-06-30T13:11:00.001-04:00

Just a quick announcement...it's come to my attention that I need to let everyone know that my new book is not available in stores. I was not able to purchase the ISBN for this book, but hope to have it by my next....
So, you can purchase from me directly or from my blog page. I'm trying to reach my goal of 100 books sold by the end of next month....won't you help? Spread the word, purchase, etc. Thanks to each of you for your support. Oh, don't forget to sign up on the Facebook box or the follower box so everyone will know you've been here. I also have a group on Facebook I'd love to have you join. A place where people can leave testimonies and comments concerning my work/books. Simply Put - Steffanie Russ. God bless!!!

Prison Bars of Fear

2010-06-30T09:09:00.004-04:00

Fear.....it places you in an ugly prison which can suck the life out of a person. There are all kinds of things one can be fearful of: fear of failure, fear of loss, fear of rejection, and on and on the list could go. Some people don't even realize that they are locked up in this cell. They live in it day in and day out and one day they become accustomed to it and accept it as a way of life. On the other hand, some people realize that fear has a death grip on them and feel the chains will surely be the death of them unless they overcome. Fear is an ugly monster, it holds you captive and makes you feel all alone. It makes you worry about things you have no business worrying about. It wraps its poisonous tentacles around you until you find yourself hidden deep within a cavernous pit. You feel safe in this pit when in all actuality you are dying on the inside.
It sounds like a death sentence, doesn't it? Well, it doesn't have to be. There is a Friend who desires that you take safety under his wings. You can be real with him, besides, he knows everything about you anyhow...he made you. Remember? There's that verse about his grace being enough for whatever we go through. He is always with us too...and he has not given us the spirit of fear. It's God's desire that we be free!
The first step of being free from this prison of fear is to realize you're in it and you want out. One must face the fact that he is afraid, but he has a God who's grace is sufficient enough to get him through anything. He'll never leave you to walk out of that jail alone! Also, you must be willing to leave it behind and start over. Remember, that same verse says his strength is perfect in weakness. Don't be afraid to admit there is a problem and you need help getting out because this is the key to open the cell door. Don't worry about the next locked gate you will need to have opened, take one step at a time and let God do the work. All you have to do is stay close to him.
Well, that's all for now...if you've found yourself in a prison cell, remember you can be free. Just how bad do you want to be free? Come before God and open your heart before him, tell him what you're feeling and that you want help. He is faithful and will not leave you comfortless. Trust him, don't try to do it on your own. He's unlocked many prison cells and he's still in the business for you!

Close Means Doing Something!

2010-06-28T10:44:00.001-04:00

Sometimes we ask God to draw us closer, or tell him that we want to be closer to him...I've done this quite often. Last night, while browsing through a song book, I came across a song that I didn't even know the tune to but as I read the words, something stood out to me like a beacon from a lighthouse on a stormy night. I don't remember the exact words; however, it said something like the following: I want to be closer to you - so I'll give you more of me. That struck me like a ton of bricks! We pray to be closer yet rely on him to do all the moving...isn't it true? We rely on him to mold us into the vessel he wants us to be, but he wants us to do our part.
To get closer to something one has to move from where they are. To get closer to the door, I have to walk toward it. That involves moving my entire body! I can't just extend my arm and be closer, I can't just put a foot toward the door and be closer - my whole body must move. So it is with getting closer to Jesus...we've got to give him everything! One can't say, I want to be closer but I'm not giving you such and such....I'm not giving up this or that. One can never draw closer by doing this...it's a one-step-forward, two-steps-back kind of thing. It takes a made up mind and to relinquish control...no matter what, I want to be closer to him and I'll pay any price to get there. That goes back to "not my will Lord, but yours be done."
If we truly desire to be close to him, he desires to hold us close under his wing. He will hold us as he works on us. As we give ourselves to him, he takes over and his gentle hands start working. He isn't going to force his will and desires upon us - we must choose. So, do we really desire to draw closer? What are we doing to do our part? It may seem risky, but we must get our life out of our own hands and and place it in his...that's the safest place in the world to be. Someone who loves us so much that he would die for us - why wouldn't he be trustworthy?
I want to be closer to you Lord, I want to be under your control. Today I move, I'm walking toward you to show you that I really desire this. Make me a new vessel - whatever you want - as long as I'm in your hands. that will be enough. You know best! Close...

Think About It!

2010-06-25T12:47:00.001-04:00

I didn't realize it had been so long since I've last posted. Oops!!! Life does get busy at times.

To all my faithful readers out there in Internet land, I just wanted to challenge you today to find something "small" to be thankful for. Look around, my "small" thing is my youngest son piled up here beside me - he's reading a book and every once in a while he'll giggle out loud about something he's reading - pure bliss! So, that's what I'm thankful for at this moment....(no, I'm not leaving my other children out, but they are not here at the moment.) Isn't it true that we over-look a lot of "small" things? The simple things! Like the brownie I am getting ready to eat....topped with plain vanilla ice-cream. Yum! If you want, when you decide what you're thankful for....leave a comment. Have a great day!!!

Will You Help?

2010-06-22T10:22:00.001-04:00

To all my dear readers and to those who are new to this site:
I'd like to ask for your help in broadcasting the word about my newest book. I need your help! If you've already purchased one, then you know what a great little book it is. Because of finances, I cannot advertise. I am relying on word of mouth from my faithful readers. So, I'm asking you to partner with me and help me get the word out. Tell everyone about Simply Put and my blog - then tell them to pass the word too. I don't usually "toot my own horn" but this project will be a blessing to all who receive it. OK, done! I thank you in advance. I will be receiving another shipment of books within the next week, so please put your order in now. They are $15 each, or if you don't have my first book, Bits & Pieces, I'm making package deal of both books for $20. A great deal!
Also, I'd like to ask one more favor. If you've already received my books, please leave a comment on this post so others can see how it blessed you. Got a testimony of how it spoke to you? Share it! And last but not least, please sign up in one of the boxes of the right hand side of this page - Facebookers or not - this is a good way to share this work with others. If they see that you visit this blog often, they are likely to visit also. Thanks and I pray all of you will have a wonderfully, blessed day!

It's NOT Fair

2010-06-21T09:51:00.001-04:00

"It's not fair"....ever heard that phrase before? I'm sure we all have. There are a lot of things in life which are seemingly unfair. Why, I'm sure each of us could sit down and jot down our own lists. Right? While we feel some things aren't fair, here's something we can look at and be thankful its not fair. God is not fair! Does this come as a shock to you? Out of all those you think have done you wrong, would you ever think of placing God on the top of your "Not Fair" list? Well, it's true. This ever-loving God isn't fair!
Plain and simple: if he were, we'd none be here today. If we got what we deserved, what would we be today? We say we deserve this or we deserve that...while God looks beyond and covers us with his amazing grace. It's NOT what we deserve! It's Not fair!! You see what I'm saying? We should be thankful that God's not fair too. He blesses us when we deserve to be reprimanded. He extends grace and mercy when we deserve to take a beating.
We don't deserve his love, yet he loves us. We don't deserve his provision, yet he provides. We don't deserve his protection, yet still he protects. He makes all things beautiful in his time...and we don't even deserve that. What benefits the child of God has...none of which we deserve! It's so NOT-FAIR!!!
Thank you Lord, for being more than enough. Thank you for not giving me what I deserve; what a mess I would be in if you did. Thank you for allowing me to obtain your mercy and grace on a daily basis. Where would I be without you? Thank you for being unfair with me. I love you for that! Help me to be conscious of this and live for you come what may. It's not fair - I'll never look at it the same. Amen~

Happy Father's Day

2010-06-18T12:34:00.001-04:00

This weekend we will be celebrating our Dads and I just wanted write a short tribute to mine....I wanted to write a poem, but I can't seem to find the words that say what I want to say, so I'll just write from a daughter's perspective (mine).

When we are born, we cannot hold his hand; yet, he holds us safely in his. Then one day following, we take that first grasp and catch on to one of his fingers. How surprised he is and filled with joy! As time goes by, we take his hand as we begin to learn to walk. Then one day our hands are big enough to wrap around a baseball and we have dad as a catching partner. As we grow, we find at times that Dad's hand can be quite firm when the need arises; yet, they know what it is to be tender also. Those dear hands help throughout the schooling years as you sit side-by-side doing projects and math problems. When the big day comes to call an end to that stage of life, he shakes your hand in congratulations and you celebrate as you head out into the "real" world. Oh, and then there's another big day...the one where you're no longer hand-in-hand, but arm-in-arm...as he gives you to the new man in your life. As time goes by, once again he holds another newborn in his hands. You stand by and watch as you reminisce of times gone by...yes, you were once safe within those arms. They are nurturing, strengthening, and make you feel so safe. As the years pass away, you watch all the stages and with the years you know the roles change. For one day, he'll be the one who isn't able to grasp your hand and you must hold his in yours. He will grow feeble and your hands will then be the provider. Gone will be the years of relying on those hands to support and protect...yet, within those hands one thing will always remain as strong as ever. For God gave us these hands to reach out and touch - to feel. With those hands will always be the most important thing of all - LOVE. There is something about the touch that reaches past what is seen and touches the heart. Yes, love is what transpired that very first time he took you in his hands. Through those hands, he taught you how to give back and love in return. He will one day pass the torch to you...reach out and carry on the tradition. What this world needs is a little more love and more fathers who are Dads. The hands of a Dad....a treasure, a gift from above. Oh, and just remember, while you're down here on this earth, there is someone who is bigger than anything and he's holding you AND your dad in his hand. He also used his hands for your good...he even has the scars to prove it, and in him is where love originated. So, I want to say thanks to my dad for giving me life, for the walk through to adulthood...it's been an adventure. For the things you've imparted to me, I say thank-you; but, most of all I want to thank you for those hands of love. I will never forget your touch. I am blessed!

Little Is Much

2010-06-17T11:33:00.002-04:00

I just wanted to post (testify) of the goodness of the Lord. He is really SO good to us...in so many ways. We often take it for granted. For instance, we take it for granted that we're going to arrive at our destination with no troubles....while God keeps his hand on us all the way.
Last night, on the way to church, we hadn't even gotten 3 miles from home when our front tire blew out. We've been having trouble with that tire for some time and have even taken it in to be repaired. When it blew, the entire back side of the tire separated from the rest and we were on the rim. Of course, I told you we were on the way to church, so all of us got out to help. I just "stupervised" while my husband and Rustin changed the tire. The other two stood and slowed traffic because we had to change the tire in the road....and also, just past a curve where there was limited sight. My poor husband was pouring sweat! After getting the tire off and he replaced it with a spare...it was flat. So, we used the van air compressor to pump the spare tire up. Then we drove to the gas station so everyone could wash up and try to make themselves presentable for church - and to get a drink. Finally, we got on the interstate and drove 55-60 all the way to church. Even though we were late for prayer...first time in I don't remember when....we made it and had great church.
Now, I know I went into a lot of detail about this simple problem; however, while I was over-seeing the changing of the tire, I said, "At least this happened now and not when we got on the interstate." Yes, God saved us from so much by allowing the tire to blow prior to being on a busy interstate. That was a blessing! See? We do take such things for granted at times, don't we? Little is much though, when God is in it. We'll never know exactly what he protected us from, but still I will thank him for his protection and always knowing best for us. God is SO good - all the time! Testimonies are all around us, because God is ALWAYS with us. It is time you take a moment and reflect on your week - what has God done for you? What have you taken for granted? I'm sure you'll find something....stop and thank him for it!

MVP News

2010-06-16T13:25:00.002-04:00

I don't know an overwhelming amount of information when it comes to the subject of sports, but I do have some basic knowledge. I know that every game has a defense and an offense position, otherwise, there would be no game. I also know that there are different qualities which are looked for in obtaining a new player – almost always depending on what position he plays. Obviously, if you need a defense on your football team, you want one of those guys who are big and burly – a guy no one can get past. We've known this kind of stuff since we were kids. Why else was there always the same few kids left waiting to be picked for a game of kick-ball? Usually, the ones who weren't fast, big, etc. – ones who would be least likely to positively contribute to the game. So, we all know how this works.

What if there was a player who could contribute to both defense and offense? How valuable would he be to the coach and team? Suppose there was one guy who had it all and could do it all. What coach wouldn't want that guy on his team? What a confidence this type of player would bring to the team!

We are constantly in a battle where there's defense and offense. Every Christian is fighting! So, allow me to introduce to you the one player that you need more than any other. The player who's resume is hard to beat. His shoes cannot be filled easily by another. I found this in Psalms 33:20. It goes like this, “ Our soul waiteth for the LORD: he is our help and our shield.”
He “is our help” – this, I'd like to compare to scoring points. He's going to help you make points! He has all the answers and all the special plays you need to make in order to score. He will be the MVP and lead your team to victory EVERY time. This special player is also “our shield.” He will be your defense! When the other team bombards you and you feel like you're going under, he'll be there to shield you and keep the other team from scoring. He can't be beat! He's the dream-team player. Yes, he's EVERYTHING we need.

Most MVP's are almost impossible to sign on without offering them an outrageous signing bonus along with a weighty, monetary contract. In fact, most teams couldn't even afford to sign him, yet, he has made himself available to us if we will just accept him. His name can fit on any jersey, yet a jersey can't contain him. He even allows his fans to wear his jersey name without reservation. I guess you know the player I'm talking about by now. The Lord is who we need on our team. He's ALL we need. No need to worry about falling behind in the polls, no use fretting about tomorrow's game....it's all covered. Here we go again...relax, knowing that the Lord is in control of your life. He's got all the bases covered and you'll come out victorious every time if you'll just let him be the lead-off batter in your life and follow his lead.

See you at the all-star games!!!!

Kisser or Hugger?

2010-06-15T11:30:00.004-04:00

I'm sure you've heard or read the story of Ruth and her daughter-in-laws before and I won't revisit it in its entirety; however, I want to focus on one part. Ruth 1:14, "...Orpah kissed her mother-in-law good-bye; but Ruth embraced her and held on." (MSG version)
The question I want to ask each of us today is this: Are you a kisser or a hugger? I know this may sound a bit odd, but let me explain the context of which I'm talking. Orpah as a kisser, Ruth as a hugger.
Are you one who, at the sight of danger, takes off running in the other direction? If so, then think of yourself as a "kisser." If, on the other hand, in the face of danger you tie a knot in your rope and hang on for life...then think of yourself as a "hugger". I hope I've not confused anyone. Orpah was not willing to risk leaving the familiar to venture into new territory. She was too interested in herself to risk the unknown.
Ruth is a different story though. She wasn't scared off by the unknown, she was willing to take a risk. I'd like to think of her as dedicated. She left behind all the things which were in her "comfort zone" and headed toward uncharted waters so to speak. She new she would face challenges, obstacles, dangers but she had her mind set on going with Naomi in spite of what happened. In other words, no matter what came her way, she was willing to embrace it and hold on because she had her mind made up. Because she was willing to step out, God used her to save Naomi and she even became part of the lineage of Jesus.
So, are you a kisser or a hugger? Are you dedicated? Are you committed so that no matter what comes, you'll hang on? To hug, one must wrap his or her arms around something or someone. A hug totally envelopes and draws close. A person cannot hug without giving ALL of himself and risking hurt from a vulnerable heart. It's much easier to run from a kiss than a hug! Do you get the picture?
Think about it today, are you committed or contented? Are you committed to the cause or are you content with just being on the edge? Are you willing to risk or will you run? Can you plant your feet and stand come what may or are you standing on shifting sand? It's not always an easy thing to be sold out, but God rewards the faithful and he holds them close. Yes, God is a hugger too!

Preparing

2010-06-12T22:35:00.003-04:00

The word for today: preparing. We were talking to a friend today and this word just stuck out like a neon light on a dark, starless night. Do we realize, as Christians, that all the things that come our way are used in some way to prepare us? While we're beating our heads against the wall trying to figure out an escape route, God is trying to prepare us. Sometimes we miss the lesson because we're too occupied with trying to figure out how to get out...we fail to sit still. God desires to take us through the valley, to lead or even carry us through. He desires to show us things and teach us his ways. Yet we find ourselves running through mud puddles trying to hurry the process. Instead of gaining ground, we lag behind from the added weight. We make the process lengthier. In our rush, we make a mess of ourselves....looking in the mirror we can see we're all splattered with mud. It weighs us down! Now, we have to wait again as God cleans us up and the training process continues. "Preparing"...wouldn't it be much simpler to wait on the Lord and learn to understand that while we're in the valley he's preparing us for what is to come. When will we learn to sit still and let God work on us? He's kind enough to be by our side all the way through. He will even carry us when we're too tired to go on. Are you in this mode? Let God make you into something new....allow him to prepare you....he'll never leave you like he found you. In his time, he'll make all things beautiful!

It IS Finished!

2010-06-10T12:14:00.003-04:00

Well, SIMPLY PUT - the final editing, copyright and everything is now finished!!! Whew! Now, what will I do? lol Plenty to do and to catch up on now that I am finished. Plus, there's always room to work on the next book! If you'd like to order a copy, click the Lulu button at the top right column of this page and you can get a preview and order. If you are in the Macon area, you can contact me personally to order your book(s). I have some on hand now, but they probably won't last long. The cost is $15 each, unless you order from me and want 10 or more.
Also, when you get yours and read it and then comment on it at the Facebook fan page, Simply Put - Steffanie Russ. Anyone is invited to join the group! I'd love to get your feedback and any comments or testimonies you may have. God bless each of you! Look forward to hearing from you soon.

Hangover?

2010-06-09T13:21:00.001-04:00

I saw something in the yesterday which I've never seen before. Actually, it was on Facebook believe it or not. (Thanks, Vicki!) There was a post about the scripture where Paul spoke of dying daily. Although I've read and heard that passage preached from many times before, the Lord opened my eyes to something new. I've always heard it preached in the context of dying daily to “sin”. And, that's true. However, allow me to share with you a different vantage point the Lord showed me today. Here's the answer to getting rid of “bad-day hangovers” - DIE.

Every day we are faced with disappointments, frustrations, distractions and failures of some kind. It's just life! What happened yesterday is gone and we cannot “redo” any of it...it is what it is. Yet, God is faithful and provides a new day, new minutes, and even seconds. If we keep pondering on the things which went wrong yesterday - who hurt us, who put the blame on us, who took advantage of us, etc. - we will never reach the full potential God has for us. These things continuously creep to the surface and eat away at our joy if they're not disposed of – it's a trap.

So, every night before going to sleep, we should take care of that day's “drama” and let it DIE...then, when we wake in the morning we can start afresh. Maybe this is the reason another verse in the Bible says not to let the sun go down on your wrath (paraphrased). Also, I remembered the Scripture telling us that God wouldn't put more on us than we could bear....however, sometimes WE add the baggage and wonder how much more the Lord will load on us. The word “die” means to “be deprived of respiration, circulation of blood....to be rendered incapable of resuscitation.” We must cut that “thing” or situation OUT! We must choose to let go of it and move on.

Holding on to these things sets us up for disaster in every point of our lives. Left to lie dormant, it can develop into hatred, bitterness, envy, etc. We find ourselves dwelling in the past and are afraid or find no sense in trying again. We even become depressed and want to give up. When we don't die daily, we find ourselves looking through eyes which cannot focus clearly on the bigger picture. We have to choose to let go. Don't be selfish, get rid of those feelings. We ask God to help us in areas but we don't “let go” and give it all to him.

There is so much more I could say, but I hope you get the picture and will allow it to marinate in your heart for a while until you can feast on it and it becomes a way of life. God desires us to live life abundantly....to be full and running over with joy. DIE – it is freedom!

Make a Difference!

2010-06-08T10:46:00.002-04:00

I just got off the phone with one of my "sisters" (not my flesh and blood, my sister in the Lord) this morning - and you might say my heart is over-joyed and running over. God is SO concerned about us and so faithful to us! Sometimes he comes to us in his still small voice and then, at other times, he does like he did for me today and works through one of his vessels. It was so refreshing to me today to hear my sister's voice on the other end of the line, "I just felt to call you this morning, the Lord laid you on my heart." We talked about the goodness of the Lord and shared how awesome we thought God is...it was a heavenly conversation. Most of all, no one knows how much I needed that call except God himself. He is so amazing!
All too often we think we can handle things on our own and we don't need anyone else in our lives. We think we are an island to ourselves and we even build walls to keep people out. However, God planned for it to be the other way. In Ecclesiastes it even talks about two being better than one. Why, God even gave Adam someone - Eve. We cannot make it on our own no matter how tough we think we are. So, I say "sisters" are a gift from God, one that shouldn't be taken for granted.
This being said, I'd like to encourage all my readers out there to take the time to do something special for someone each day. As with me today, it doesn't take much. Even a simple phone call, note or a hug can go a long way toward making some one's day a little bit brighter. It's every one's ministry! Don't shirk your duty - be the vessel God desires for you to be and in doing so, make a difference in someone's life. Go that extra mile to think about others. Sometimes we are a bit selfish! Don't get me wrong, there are times when we need to be ministered to, but more often than not, we should be the one's ministering to others. Be sensitive today and let God make a difference in some one's life through you. He sure blessed me today through this sweet sister. God bless her!

Another Touch

2010-06-07T10:34:00.001-04:00

It's so beautiful how the Word of God can be so refreshing! What a difference a time of prayer can make! God is just awesome!
Yesterday, while in prayer, God brought this old song to my mind. It's been many, many years since I've heard it; yet, it touched me so. I just wanted to share it with everyone today. I thank God for his faithfulness!If you're having "one of those days" just ask the Lord for another touch.

A Brand New Touch

I tho't the sun had come to stay,
But all too soon it went away;
And in its place the storm clouds came,
And with the clouds there came the rain.
It rained so hard and oh so long
But midst the storm I felt a calm,
It was Your touch that bro't me thru it all,
Without Your help I'd surely fall.

Lord you know I need a brand new touch
My strength from yesterday is gone
But if you'll give me Lord another touch
I'll have the strength to carry on.

Yesterday has come and gone
And now a new day's coming on
I do not know what it may bring
My heart may cry instead of sing
It matter's not what comes my way
Lord, if you'll just touch me new each day
Your loving touch drives all my fears away
Close by your side I want to stay.

Lord you know how weak I really am
Even better than myself
But with your help I know I really can
Make it through the darkest night
Everything's gonna be alright.

PLUS Plan

2010-06-04T10:17:00.002-04:00

After a very exciting week with my family, I'm back. I trust you all had a great week too.

I've been thinking about the woman in the Bible who had 2 sons and much debt. Remember the story? all she had in her house was a little oil. Elisha instructed her to go borrow containers from her neighbors. She and her sons obeyed and, in the end, there was enough oil for her to sell and pay her debts with more to spare.
First of all, I was thinking about the fact that Elisha told her to go borrow vessels then come in and lock the door behind them. Why did he tell her to "lock" the door and not just "close" it? I came to this conclusion: What was taking place was a miracle of provision. The mother and her sons obeyed the commands of the man of God - they had done their part. By locking the door, others couldn't get inside and hinder their faith. Think back upon the plight of Job and what his friends said to him. When the woman locked the door, no one could enter in and disturb the miracle taking place. It was protection for her and her sons.
Secondly, I was thinking about how she only had a little oil. God used what she already had to perform a miracle on her behalf. The oil kept mulitiplying until the last vessel which she had borrowed was full. Then, it stopped. If she would have had more vessels, I believe she could have poured for out oil for days. I think God is still like this. He desires to pour out blessings upon us, so much more than we can imagine. I believe we live way below our privilege as children of God. If we obey, he desires to "open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it." (Malachi 3:10) God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all we can ask or think. What we need, PLUS some! He wants us to "try" and "prove" him.
Isn't it wonderful to serve a God who is rich in every way? Isn't it great to know we have a heavenly Father who desires to lavish his children with more than their mere needs? Yes, I think we're living on the PLUS Plan of God and how amazing his ways are. PLUS Plan = Providing Life, Ultimately Satisfied

Happy Memorial Day!

2010-06-01T12:07:00.001-04:00

Just a quick "hi' to my faithful readers....I'm still here. However, I'm taking a break from writing while my family is here from Louisiana. Thanks for understanding. I'll be back on Friday or Saturday.
If you'd like to order one of my new books, Simply Put, please email me and I'll get with you. Hope everyone has a wonderful Memorial Day! God bless our service men - past and present.

Under Construction

2010-05-28T00:10:00.002-04:00

Psalms 25:21 - Use all your skill to put me together; I wait to see your finished product. (Message Version)

Isn't that a request! I mean, can you even imagine ALL the skill God has? He spoke the world into existence and created man when he was done. Here we find David telling God to use all his skill to put his broken life back together. Kind of like the nursery rhyme about Humpty-Dumpty. He had fallen and had broken into a million pieces. The mission was to put him back together again...but it was a failed one. David is asking the Lord to put his life together while he patiently waits to see the finished product.
Have you ever had a situation arise in your life which left you broken? Did you try to fix it within your own means only to find you were making a bigger mess of things? I imagine this happens every day. We can't do the work that the Master can. He has skill which cannot be matched because he is the author of our lives. Only he can take the broken pieces and put them all back together again. Once we realize and admit this, it's time to sit back and be patient.
God has a plan for each of our lives. When we mess up or fall down, we prolong his finished work. Although he spoke the light into the world in a flash, he may not choose to do so in our lives. Sometimes we must wait on him and trust him to bring it to pass...to make us just exactly what he wants us to be. Sure, he could do it in just a second or two, but if he doesn't, we must wait. It is only through his grace and mercy that we are allowed to sit on the Potter's wheel once again for reconstruction.
If you've found yourself in a broken state, ask God to fix you, then prepare to wait till he finishes. The end result is promised to be a work of art. He never leaves us like he finds us...it always turns out for the better if we will but wait on him. You see, a rose is much more beautiful when he slowly unfolds it rather than when you and I try to force it open. Give it to God today and watch him take your brokenness and turn it into beauty. Believe he can, believe he will do it for you, ask, and then sit back and wait.

UNDER CONSTRUCTION!!! God working!

Do Something

2010-05-26T11:34:00.000-04:00

Be sure to do something positive today! Give someone who looks down and out a smile...tell someone you are thinking of them. Make an effort to make a difference in someones life. There are people in your path today who are searching for a ray of hope...help them see that ray. Give a hug, offer a helping hand - it costs you nothing yet may be priceless to the other. Make a conscious effort to compliment someone. Who knows the difference that a positive word could make in the life of someone who is down and out. Look around, be alert! Don't let the opportunity pass you by. Make it your mission each day...to touch someone in a special way. Be a true Christian...Christ-like. That's all Christ did while on this earth....went about looking for people to touch. Now, get busy! You will be surprised at the effect it will have on your own day.

Simply Put....Ready!

2010-05-25T15:47:00.001-04:00

Well, looks like we're ready earlier than we anticipated! I will be placing orders for my new book, Simply Put, on this coming Tuesday, June 1st. If you'd like to order, please email me. $15. I will need your money before I order, so get with me quickly. Thanks and I'm excited to be able to share with each of you. Please help me spread the word to your friends, family and acquaintances. God bless!!!

It's Your Move

2010-05-24T01:42:00.001-04:00

"OK, God it's your move!" As we were headed home from church last night, the gauges on our van's instrument panel started going berserk. The air condition had already went out earlier in the day. So, here we were praying, "God, just get us to the driveway." And, he did! So, now it's dead and won't do anything...but we made it home.
There comes a time when everything just piles up and you have to simply say, "God, it's your move!" There's nothing more I can do, no use worrying about it - it is what it is. How he chooses to make things work out is his business. I'm so glad he's the Master and can turn any disaster into a masterpiece. I suppose that's the beauty of knowing him and "resting" in him. What's that verse of Scripture: in his time, he makes all things beautiful? What an adventure to see how things will turn out when we get out of the way and let him take the wheel and do the work.
Right now I can't see, it's kind of foggy out here. But, I expect this will be another testimony to give glory to my Lord. Until this time comes to pass, I'll keep thanking him for the victory. Yes, sometimes my emotional gauges go berserk too, but I must remember who I am and who my Daddy is. What a blessed assurance!!! Let him have his move in your life today.

No Lids Here

2010-05-22T12:18:00.002-04:00

How many times have you searched your kitchen cabinets for the right lid for a certain dish? They have come out with all kinds of lid organizers and tips on keeping them more organized. Lids come in all shapes and sizes and most of the time they aren't inter-changeable. Most of the time I still find myself grabbing the plastic wrap instead of going on "the hunt". There are several stories in the Bible which include pots or vessels and I've been thinking on this thought for a while now. Anyhow, I don't think God likes vessels or pots with lids either!
Although lids have their purpose in the cooking world, I think the Lord would rather we be a vessel without a lid. Think with me here. What is a lid's purpose? First, to keep things inside. For example, a lid for a drink keeps the liquid from being spilled. Now, I know for sure God wouldn't want us having lids for this reason. He wants us to be full and over-flowing! Why? One of our missions in this life is to be the salt of the earth. We are supposed to give others a taste of what is inside of us. How can we over-flow with a lid on?
Secondly, a lid keeps things out. For example, a lid can keep a fly from landing in your stew. However, a lid also has to be removed before a vessel can be filled. If we are a vessel without a lid, the Lord can fill us up and bless us whenever he desires. He won't have to wait till we decide to take the lid off!
So, you see, I think the Lord would prefer us to be vessels without lids. That way, he has full access to our life at all times. If you've developed a lid of fear, doubt, or bitterness, etc., it's time to throw the lid away and let God fill you up to over-flowing. We are all vessels of various shapes and sizes, God-designed. We are all special and he desires to pour into us without a lid getting in the way.

Lord, I throw every lid I have accumulated away today. I want to be continuously available to you

that you may fill me when you desire; and that others might see you in me. If I have a hard time

getting rid of these lids, please help me for you've said in my weakness, you are strong. If these lids

are hidden and I miss some, please clean them out for me. I want to be full of the right things!

Setting Yourself Up For Victory

2010-05-21T10:31:00.002-04:00

Recall the story of the 12 spies sent to get the scoop on Canaan. Amongst those 12 men were Joshua and Caleb, who we know came back with a positive report. Now, my questions to you are: did they go to the same city? did they see the same people? who was the leader of the pack? Goodness, there are many questions, but these few should start the wheels rolling in your mind. Pastor helped me with this scenario, which was already on my "thinking" press, in our last service. So, here are my thoughts:
These spies apparently went to the same city because they agreed on reports of the food. Yes, the land flowed of milk and honey, and look at the grapes we've brought back! Joshua and Caleb must have agreed with this report because they did not contradict it. However, that's about where the twelve broke off into their separate reports. Ten spies said they couldn't over-take the land, while two said they were able to do so. Don't you think the numbers were a little heavier on the "can't-do-it" side? Why didn't more fall on the "can-do" side? Here's something I'd like you to consider: the power of influence.
Let me break it down for you: you believe and become what you hang around. Plain and simple! If your company consists of people who are non-believers, then you'll possibly begin to doubt somewhere along the way. The people you hang around will have influence on you in some way. The trick to being successful is to know when to separate yourself. Apparently, the leader of the "can't do" side had much influence on the majority of the crowd. I wonder how they felt when they found out they had joined up on the wrong side? The had believed the wrong report!
Be sure your friends are leading you in the right direction and be strong enough to cut ties if you feel otherwise. People can be influencing you at times without you even being aware of it. Choose your company carefully! Half of the battle is determining who will fight for and believe in the cause. Stop today and survey the company you keep. Will they better or bitter you? Remember, the company you keep could hinder you from being victorious. Choose your "team" with care.

Searching...

2010-05-20T11:29:00.001-04:00

Scrounging around for change...searching in drawers, pockets, chair cushions, etc. Searching! Makes me reflect back to the story of the woman in the Bible who came up with only 2 mites. I wonder how long and earnestly she had searched before she found these coins? And, the joy she must have had when she finally held them in her hand. Remember that story? Have you ever had to scrounge around for change? Can you relate?
There is something satisfying about searching for something and then to finally find it. Think about the game Hide And Seek. Closing your eyes, you count to 100 before beginning your search. You search and search until finally you find someone and you're not "it" any more. I'm sure we've all played this game, or one similar, at one time or another. What satisfaction - to find the ones who are hiding.
Sometimes we hide, or lose, ourselves. Ever had "one of those days"? Everything just seems to go wrong, your spirit is low and the smile has faded from your face. If you're reading this, then you're "human" and this has probably happened to you before. No, you're not abnormal! Times like these come, however, they won't last always. What a comfort to know God has us in his sights. We're never "lost" from him: wait upon the Lord and renew your strength.

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I'm A Kings Kid

2010-05-18T10:48:00.001-04:00

Wow! I am so glad I am a Kings Kid. What a privilege to have the biggest Daddy in the universe at my side. Always there providing, making a way, and seeing about me. What a comfort to know that he never takes his eye off of me. And, oh, how he loves me!
Try looking yourself in the mirror and repeating the words above. You see, as a man thinks in his heart, so is he (paraphrased from the Word). Having a "not-so-good" day? Find a mirror and remind yourself that you are a Kings Kid. He cares for you, what you're going through, and he will see you through.
Yesterday my Daddy took my family out for a wonderful dinner at Red Lobster. What a grand time we had together, and what a treat it was. As we sat there enjoying soft, fluffy garlic cheese biscuits and salad, I thought to myself, what a blessing and how privileged I am. It may not seem like much to you, but I know the blessing that it really was. My children's eyes sparkled as they looked at their main course and then dove right in. It was more than just a chance to go out to eat, it was a date with Daddy.
The Lord had provided us with a $100 gift card through one of my husband's chicken farmers. As we gave the gift card to our waiter at the end of our meal, he said, "Somebody must love you guys!" I sat there basking in the wonder of it all...yes, my Daddy does love me. Of course, we could have eaten at home last night and everything would have been normal; but, Daddy had other things in mind. He wanted to treat us like royalty! My, I hated to have to leave when we were finished eating!
Friend, you are special! You are a Kings Kid! There is just no telling what he will do for you today. Hold your head up, stand straight, and walk right by his side. He may not take you out to eat today, but you can be sure he's holding you up and who knows what special thing he may do for you today. (Hey, don't forget to look at the simple things too!)
I'd sure love it if you left a comment here and let us know what Daddy did for you! Have a wonderful day and smile - YOUR A KINGS KID.

TO ALL MY READERS

2010-05-17T09:49:00.002-04:00

Hello to all of you out there in blog land...lol. Hope you're having a wonderful Monday! Here's an update on my book...it's ready for printing and our July goal is in sight. With only ten days left for donations for the ISBN, it doesn't look as if I will reach that goal, but God is still able to provide. If you'd like to donate anything, do so now! Any donations will be used strictly for Simply Put. This is such an exciting phase. I can hardly wait to get the finished product in my hands! I passed out cards yesterday to help announce the big day, if you're not here or didn't get any, please feel free to email or spread the word to your friends and family. It was so great to get a couple comments on my post from last week. It is always encouraging to know that something I put out there has touched someone along the way. So, don't be shy! If you like something you see here, let me know. Don't know how many actual readers I have out there, but I hope you are finding this sight refreshing and uplifting to your soul. That's my main goal! To everyone out there: have a great day in Jesus, be alert to the simple things God does today, and try your best to bless someone in your life today. It makes life all worth while!!!

I See Turnip Greens

2010-05-13T11:18:00.002-04:00

So....we're in the middle of praise and worship time at church last night and all the sudden I stopped the song and said, "I see turnip greens." lol Yes, you can imagine the look on everyone's face - you'd be correct. Some gave me the look of astonishment while others chuckled discreetly wondering what in the world I was thinking. Guess you're wondering too, huh? We were singing "...thank you Lord for everything you have done..." and thus, my reason for the seemingly odd statement. No, I wasn't hungry nor craving turnips. Well, let me share the scoop with you!
Yesterday my husband came home from work with a arm load of fresh turnip greens from one of the farms he services. You see, the Lord provides in the most mysterious and unexpected ways. That's one of the exciting things about living for him. You never know just HOW he's going to do it, but you know he'll come through. That is the third time this week we have been blessed with something like this....here we go again, the simple things. People, God just keeps bringing that back to my mind. Are we thankful for the simple things? Doesn't the Word say something about him using the simple things to confound the wise?
Well, after we cranked back up on that song again...I think there was a new appreciation and the praise was more intense. So, to all those of you out there who don't do turnip greens, maybe God will send you something else instead, but no matter what it is, be thankful...even in the small things. Now, off to start my greens....anyone want to come over? lol

WHATSOEVER...under my feet!

2010-05-12T12:09:00.004-04:00

This thought came to me the other day in church and I shared this thought with my pastor. He was reading Psalms 8 "...what is man that thou art mindful of him.....thou hast made him to have dominion over..." He has put ALL things under our feet. Then, this is the part that hit me! Verse 8, "The fowl of the air, and the fish of the sea, and whatsoever passeth through the paths of the seas."
It occurred to me that he already made the statement we have dominion over the fish of the sea; but, then he goes on to say WHATSOEVER passes through the seas. Why couldn't he have just left it at the "fish of the sea"? This is the thought that came to me. Where do storms originate? In the waters, right? The longer the storm system stays in the sea/ocean, the stronger it becomes too.
We often times fret over the storms of life...and for nothing! The Lord has already placed them under our feet. We are winners!!! So, what's the storm for? To make us stronger, help us grow, and to make the devil mad. When he realizes we are not consumed with fear and anxiety at the storm that he has raging, he has lost that battle and all glory goes to God. The calming assurance we have is that the Lord knows we are but human and we sometimes think we can't overcome...however, he is mindful of us in this state and is always near to carry us through. What a Savior!!!
Are you in a storm? Rest in knowing that you've already been given authority over it, it came to pass and God is an ever-present help if you get into trouble with this human flesh. Remember, WHATSOEVER...the name of the storm? or the name of the attack route....WHATSOEVER comes my way...is under my feet!

Look Closer

2010-05-11T10:52:00.003-04:00

So, what are you thankful for today? Have you stopped to think about it? You woke up this morning...you're breathing (at least I hope these things are true since you're reading this blog! lol), did you turn on the light this morning when you woke up? You see, these are things we sometimes don't think about. No matter what the situation or circumstances you find yourself in; God has given you blessings. It may not be a substantial amount of money, a miracle of healing, or anything of such "magnitude". However, it may be something as simple as someone giving you a dozen eggs when you're out. Maybe someone gave you packages of deer meet when you had no meat. Maybe someone sent you a sweet email or a card which encouraged your soul. These are all things which have been given to me/my family in the last week for which I have found myself elated over. You see, it's not always the big things! Think about it, what has the Lord blessed you with that you've over looked or taken for granted? Maybe you should take a moment or two and sit down with a tablet and pen, or with your computer, and make a list of everyday things you should be thankful for. Post it in a place where you are sure to see it a couple times each day - a reminder of the blessings of the Lord. Since the Lord cares for each detail of our life, shouldn't we pay closer attention to the detailed things he does in our lives? While you may not have a dime in your pocket, you have a pocket, which means you are clothed. Your vehicle may be clanking or whining, but this means you have transportation. Your air condition may be broken, but at least you have a roof over your head. It's easy to get caught up in the negative! However, think on the positive...LOOK for things to thank the Lord for. Make your list and as you thank him for each thing, you'll find yourself feeling rich regardless of the amount of money in your bank account. One more thing, remember, your Daddy owns all the cattle on the hill....and the hill too. He is also rich in blessings...even the ones we take for granted. So, I ask you: What are you thankful for today?

Pressing On!

2010-05-10T10:27:00.004-04:00

Today I woke up with a song on my mind. Don't know all the words to it, but it says "...we're pressing on...."; and Lord, how we need to do that. So, today I want to remind everyone out there to keep putting one foot in front of the other. Remember, it doesn't matter how big your step is...as long as you're moving - and in the right direction. There's no time to stall! Jesus is coming soon! I encourage you, on this Monday, to make up your mind that no matter what comes this week, no matter what it may look like, that you are going to keep marching. We're in the Lord's army; he is our commander. He WILL see us through to the end! No doubting, trust and rest (OK, take a deep breath and let it out slowly) in his promises. No weapon formed against us shall prosper....Philippians 1:6, "Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:" Like my husband preached yesterday, "O What a God!" No matter what you're going through, remember the earth is the Lord's footstool and your problem really isn't that big to such an awesome God.

Press on....keep walking....you can do it...trusting and resting in the Lord. Hang in there, don't you dare give up!!!

2010-05-08T18:28:00.001-04:00

There's 2 1/2 weeks left for me to raise the funds I need for my book. Please pray and consider donating whatever the Lord lays on your heart. I am really hoping to be able to have an ISBN on this book; my last one did not. I plan to have a special recognition page in the back of my book listing those who have helped make this book a success. Whatever the Lord lays on your heart will be acceptable! If I do not get enough funds, what is donated will still be used toward other book preparation needs.
I hope everyone has a wonderful day tomorrow, especially all mothers. I plan to celebrate mine as always...at church. Whatever you do to celebrate yours, God bless you. Thanks to all you special ladies out there who have "adopted" and mentored someone other than your own. That is the will of God!
Well, catch you next post! Hope you are enjoying this site...and spreading the word. God bless!

Happy Mother's Day! (pass the link along to the special ones in your life)

2010-05-05T15:12:00.003-04:00

     Mother's Day is right around the corner! Wow, this year is moving right along, isn't it? Well, Mother's Day is always such a special day of the year....and, it should be, by right. There are so many phases of Mother's Day though, just as with Father's Day I suppose.
*If you're a mother, then you celebrate the privilege of being so...even on the “not so good” days. You celebrate the honor to give life to those precious little ones and the opportunity to watch them grow into adulthood.
*If you're not a mother, then you celebrate your own mother. You have a special treasure in your mother. She brought you into this world and nurtured you well before the world was graced with your presence. Yes, you too can celebrate this wonderful day. If it weren't for her, you wouldn't be here now.
*There is the right to celebrate...with your spouse...for helping with the opportunity of becoming a mother at all. And then, there is his mother too....she brought him into this world.
*Then there are those who are mother figures to others. There's not a flesh and blood bond, but there is a spirit bond which is just as strong. Almost everyone has labeled an “extra” mother in his or her lifetime. Those who love us just as we are and prod us to be all we can be in this life. Where would we be without those added “mothers”?
     You see, what the world needs today is more of a mother's love. There are so many hurting individuals out there who long for someone to show them love. Everywhere you look, there are people who need. We all need! You see, mother's meet many needs of those she cares for. Maybe when he looked down through time, he decided there needed to be a being who could reflect himself to others. Thus, he gave us mothers.
     Happy Mother's Day to all you great ladies out there. The world is a better place because of you. We owe you our lives...and our love.

                           Dedicated to my mom, mom-in-law, and my hero~

We're Two Places!

2010-05-05T11:09:00.001-04:00

I didn't know which would be easier, so I will be copying this post to my new website -

http://simply-put.webs.com/

So, check it out!

A Confession

2010-05-04T23:08:00.001-04:00

As I sit and write devotions, the Lord continually brings thoughts to my mind and I place them down on paper. But does that mean I have it all together? On the contrary, I often find myself referring back to a devotion I have written, and reminding myself exactly what it means and what I've put out there for others. Sometimes, even though we KNOW what is right in our heart, we still need to be reminded of God's provision and grace. So, no, I don't have it all together, just striving to help myself - and others- stay on the mend with those little tid-bits the Lord enlightens my eye to.

Visit My Book Website

2010-05-04T09:14:00.001-04:00

We're trying to get the word out about Simply Put. Come on over and check it out for yourself, get a sneak preview of the cover and inside, and feel free to leave a comment. More than anything, please email my website address to all your contacts. The more publicity - the better! God bless each of you today, can't wait to see what the rest of the day holds! http://simply-put.webs.com/

Paying for the Devil's Scheme?

2010-05-03T17:25:00.002-04:00

I sometimes wonder what the reaction of the devil is when he's caused a misunderstanding between two people? What does he say when you've blown up and said things you didn't mean? Does he sit there and laugh at a job well done? Does he throw it up in God's face? Does he stop at just causing a misunderstanding or does he keep sending his evil imps to stir up more problems?
There are times when this happens and those things which are said are meant only as innocent remarks. Under normal circumstances, the things which were said would cause no reaction between two people; however, at times situations and circumstances may cause us to react offensively. Maybe a person is tired, frustrated, stressed, depressed, lonely, or even sick. These are normal things which we all feel at some time or other. There is nothing wrong with these feelings in themselves; yet, the enemy will use them to kick you when you're down. What better time to get someone to say or do something to you? If he can just get you to react wrongly, get you riled up...you'll pay - and he will win out. You see, we are all human and prone to make bad decisions.

What about that person who is going through something? Is it their fault for not being able to handle it? Or could the blame be placed on the other for not being sensitive? You see, there are two ways to look at every situation. Maybe you meant nothing by the words you said, maybe you were offended because of the comments made, etc. It takes a big person to keep the mouth shut and the tongue still. It's something, however, which is required of all Christians.

Whether we're the one being offended or the one doing the offending, we should strive to think of the other person first. That is a characteristic of a Christian, being Christ-like, thinking of others before ourselves. Because after all, words we say can make a lasting impression. Isn't it said that a tongue can kill? When we bite back or say things in sarcasm, who's team are we really on? What would Jesus do? Or is that what the enemy of our soul would do.

Many barriers are erected in the effort to protect ourselves. We don't want to be hurt so we busy ourselves building the highest, most fortified wall we can. I suppose this is a normal reaction. Yet, it separates us. I don't recall Jesus ever building any walls, but I see plenty of times when he broke them down. When we build barriers to keep others out, we also keep God out to a degree. He doesn't work in an area we block off.

I'm sure everyone reading this post can relate to a time when you've been in this delimma. What's the answer? Should we be as tough as nails? Should we keep opening ourselves up for possible hurt? Are we giving honor to the devil by being part of his plan? What does God think? These are important questions we must ask ourselves. Is there a "right" answer? (Feel free to leave a comment.) Are we paying for the devil's scheme?

PRE-ORDER

2010-05-01T01:32:00.001-04:00

Goodness...this is SO much fun! I already have my first PRE-ORDER for my book, Simply Put. I'm so excited about this book! I was asked when it should be out. I am hoping for the first of July at the latest. If you are interested in pre-ordering a copy for yourself or loved one, please email me and let me know so I can put you on the list. I will keep everyone updated on the date. So far, I have had no donations, but we'll keep hanging on until the deadline. Hopefully we'll meet our goal somehow. That in itself will be a testimony! Well, it's past my bed time.....see you on the next post!

Get my posts emailed to you!

2010-04-30T14:26:00.000-04:00

For any of you who would like to be emailed when I post something new, please email me your address and I'll email it to you. That way, if you're in a hurry, you won't waste time coming by to check for new posts if there aren't any. I'll gladly email you. Thanks. Email me @: russellsteffanie@aol.com Leave a comment and let me know if you like this idea.

Paying With Change

2010-04-30T13:01:00.001-04:00

Whew! I'm glad this stomach bug has finally been exterminated...lol. However, the rest was great! Hope everyone out there is having a blessed day.

Today's topic: paying for items at the store.....with change.

How many times I remember, while in high school, going through a drive-thru somewhere and paying for a biscuit with change. (Thanks, Dad! Wish I still had that change jar!) I don't remember being embarrassed about doing so. However, times do change, I suppose. For today, my eldest griped about having to go to the store and count out change for a dozen eggs. Go figure! I'm wondering to myself...what's the big deal? We need them! The reply was that it was embarrassing. The answer to that dilemma for him....bring sister and let her go in and pay. lol Goodness! How many out there have every bought something with change? Have there been times in your life when that's all you had....change?

My mind wandered back to the Bible, when widow put the mite in the collection basket. I wonder what she was thinking? Was she embarrassed? Or was it a honor? Maybe as time goes along we are getting more prideful instead of being thankful. What do you think? Meanwhile, I'll be in the kitchen boiling up some of those eggs for chicken salad...and thanking the Lord for the change they used to purchase them.

Just a Note

2010-04-28T21:29:00.002-04:00

Just want to let everyone know that Chip-In is a Paypal account. I think some are confused as to the matter of the payment method. Hope everyone is having a good night....off to work some more.

IT'S READY!!!!

2010-04-27T15:02:00.005-04:00

My book is sitting in ready mode right now. Everything is completed! I'm only waiting now on the funds to finish publishing it complete with ISBN. Just so you know I'm not pulling your leg, I'm giving you a sneak preview of the cover of SIMPLY PUT. If you'd like to donate, please do so in the column on the right. Thanks to all who have helped me with this project up to this point. God bless. I'm excited and....somewhat impaitient, I might add....lol.

Giggles

2010-04-26T10:44:00.004-04:00

They heard it muffled from within the tent where Sarah was quietly listening to the conversation concerning her and Abraham. Now, hold on! A baby? At my age? That's ridiculous! (giggle)

You know, sometimes we are just like Sarah. We find ourselves giggling in disbelief when God says he has something big planned for our lives that he wants us to do. What? He must be crazy! There's no way that I can ever be that or do that. He doesn't know what he's asking! That is totally NOT me, does he know who he's talking about? (giggle, giggle) This kind of reminds me of Moses too. When God told him to lead the children of Israel out of Egypt, Moses said he couldn't speak. Who knows, he might have even giggled a little at the Lord's request. I stutter, does he know who he's asking to speak to the people or Pharaoh?

Yeah, we all have our little quirks and hang-ups and we sometimes look at them as hindrances. Maybe we stutter, maybe we twitch, or maybe we are shy...whatever the case, we think that these things keep us from being all we could be. I'm reminded of a man who took his disease and turned it into a ministry to teach children about living for and loving the Lord. He does great things for Jesus right through his sickness. I don't know, but in his case, I think the “giggles” would be on the enemy because he didn't let disease and sickness hinder the work God had planned for him to do.

Have you found yourself in the tent laughing in disbelief? Hey, it's been done before! However, even though Sarah laughed, God still brought what he said to pass. If God said it, it will happen, have no doubt. Abraham and Sarah waited for many years for a son to be born and even took matters into their own hands to bring it to pass. However, in God's time, it came to pass just like he said it would. (giggle)

Are you giggling at something the Lord has said? Whether you giggle in disbelief or for some other reason, just be sure you're ready for it, because God WILL bring it to pass. Oh, and remember this, God sees you are giggling – even if you're hiding in the tent doing so. You just might be in for the ride of your life! Hang on.

What a Day!

2010-04-24T18:17:00.000-04:00

I don't know about you, but today has been a stormy, rainy day in GA. It's actually been quite a lazy one also....for me, that is. I wanted to ask everyone again to sign up to follow this blog over on the right top column. It's easy, so don't worry about not being able to figure it out. If you've checked this blog out - sign up and check it out again...and again. Thanks for your support!!!

I hope everyone has a wonderful Sunday!

Pass It On Down

2010-04-23T10:20:00.001-04:00

“Only take heed to thyself, and keep thy soul diligently, lest thou forget the things which thine eyes have seen, and lest they depart from thy heart all the days of thy life: but teach them thy sons, and thy sons' sons;” Deut 4:9

Many devotions are meant to help us keep on going when we want to quit, to give us hope or to let us know God is in control. We need these types of reminders constantly it seems. However, this Scripture struck me and I think it needs repeating.

While we are going through our valley, hanging on by a small strand of the rope, we're constantly on our knees praying in desperation until God comes through for us. Maybe you've been at the low place when your cupboards were bare and suddenly a bag of groceries appears out of nowhere. What about that time a check came in the mail and you were able to pay the light bill? Oh, then there is that time when you had a sickness in your body and the doctors gave up hope, then Jesus stepped in on the scene and healed you. Don't forget these times.

All too often, we are quick to forget the blessings that come our way; yet, we remember every time something went wrong. As this verse says, take heed – don't forget what you've experienced (OK, I paraphrased it a bit). We should remember the things God has done for us so we can share those experiences with others. Your story could be a faith builder for someone going through a similar experience. Most of all, we should share these times of blessings with our children. How will their faith ever grow if we don't share with them what the Lord has done for us?

In days gone by, before the printing press, information was passed down solely by word of mouth. From generation to generation, stories were kept alive by talking about it. Even with the technological advancements we have made today, we must still take the time to share with our children the goodness of the Lord. It's our responsibility to share what the Lord has done in and for us! We are called to be witnesses, not only to our neighbors, but to our children.

Beautiful Balloons...and such

2010-04-22T12:00:00.005-04:00

Ever blown up a balloon? Usually at every party, someone ends up getting stuck with the dreadful task of blowing up balloons. Of course, I don't. There's a secret behind that too, I don't have enough hot air to waste on blowing up balloons. But seriously, it takes a lot of air to blow up a balloon, especially if you don't have a pump to do it for you. However, everyone enjoys the final product, don't they? Nothing attracts attention like bright, colorful balloons dancing in the wind.

Before there can be a bright, floating balloon in the air, that balloon must be stretched (inflated) almost to its limit. Look how small an deflated balloon looks in your hand, then try to hold the finished product in that same hand. It's usually impossible, isn't it? Yet, a deflated balloon doesn't offer the same exciting view as one which has been inflated.

I know there have been times when I've sat watching my children blow up balloons, and I wondered to myself, “How much more can it take before it pops?” Have you ever been at that point? Lord, how much more can I take before I pop? Yet, it's the same concept with gold and silver. Both of these precious metals must go through strenuous heating processes before they can ever be something beautiful. Beauty doesn't come without a cost! Look at that tiny plant that just burst forth from the ground. It had to push its way through the soil before it could become something beautiful.

So it is with us, my friend, we have to “go through” and endure if we are going to be the beautiful vessel the Lord has in mind for us. There are tests, pressures and some hot, fiery times that we must endure in our life. We can take comfort in knowing that the Lord is with us all the time and knows when we are at our point of breaking. He has a plan for you and I, as part of his masterpiece. I thought about Adam and Eve. He stooped and breathed the breath of life into them after he took the time to create them. He didn't speak them into existence like he did other living things. They were going to be special! They were going to bring him glory!

You are special. You have a special testing procedure to go through before you can reach your full potential. Every test and trail you go through helps to mold you into that perfect vessel. So, keep this in mind, the Lord is the One blowing up your balloon....just relax and let him work.

Rock Music

2010-04-21T12:32:00.001-04:00

Before rock music ever shocked the air waves with its style in the 50's, Rock music was real and alive. No, for those of you who are thinking of times earlier, say the early 1900's, I'm talking about way before that. You may think to yourself, “What's up with this? What are you talking about?” I'm so glad you asked! Would you ever think of finding it in the Bible? Let's go exploring!

I stumbled upon this verse in Psalms that made me kind of chuckle to myself. Psalms 95:1, “ O come, let us sing unto the LORD: let us make a joyful noise to the rock of our salvation.” How about that? God's people were doing Rock music way before the 1900's! The Bible is full of scripture instructing us to make a joyful noise, sing unto the Lord, etc. God's children have worshiped The Rock since times of old. String, wind and percussion instruments were used in Biblical times making music unto the Lord. After being delivered through the Red Sea, Moses and the children of Israel sang songs to the Lord. Music has always been a big part of worshiping the Lord. It was even a huge part of celebrating a victory at war.

So, while Elvis might have been considered the king of rock and roll; our King is the Rock! I love the fact that even in Deuteronomy 33:31 it says, “For their rock is not as our Rock...” How true this is! Our Rock is our very foundation, our song, our very breath. Unlike the music of today, our Rock music is beautiful and accepted by our Lord and brings Him much pleasure. Lucifer lost out, he WAS the music in Heaven. Yet, when he was kicked out, God gave this opportunity and privilege to His creation. Music is powerful and Satan uses it to influence people for the damnation of their souls. Music was meant to bring praise unto the Lord and to lift our spirits as we worship Him. Instruments, voices and tunes which are bound together as one to bring pure praise unto the King...this is the first and only acceptable form of music.

In closing, I say to you, sing a song today...a Rock song!

Please leave me some feedback (comment), this is one of the devotions in my upcoming book, Simply Put. I'd like to get your opinions. Thanks!

Music...enjoy!

2010-04-20T12:04:00.000-04:00

As you can tell if you've previously visited this blog, I've added some nifty little things to make my page more personalized. Right now you're listening to some of the songs that I'm really loving at this moment in life. Hope you enjoy them as you browse through my posts. Music has a way of bridging the gap between people, saying things that otherwise can't be said, and, well, it's just a great form of communication. What a precious ability the Lord gave us when He allowed us the talent to sing. Enjoy!

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Shades of Faith

2010-04-19T10:04:00.001-04:00

Do you wear sunglasses? Do you remember your first pair of sunglasses? It seems to always be a big deal to get sunglasses. Whether it is a fashion statement or just to look cool. Did you know there are some medical reasons for wearing sunglasses? Oops, did anyone ever think of that?
There are several medical reasons why one shoud wear sunglasses; however, the main reason we put on sunglasses is to reduce the glare of the sun. This reduces the distractions which can interfere with our vision. They're not just to look cool after all!

I don't know exactly how it happened but I began to compare sunglasses to having faith. Remember? We walk by faith and not by sight? I remember putting on my shades and enjoying the way the colors of everything around me kind of took on a different look. Things seemed to look more appealing. To me it was more peaceful, smooth, colorful, etc. Then when I'd take them off, bam!, I would squint because of all the harsh brightness and squinting is a distraction.

When we walk by faith, we don't see things as they are, we look at things in a different light. We can walk a little furthur, climb a little higher, and hang on a little bit longer. Faith is what God has given us to help us endure to the end. In the same way sunglasses protect our eyes, faith also protects us. There are many distractions in our daily life which can cause us to stumble and not see as clearly as we need to. If we can just look at our problems and situations through shades of faith, we will take comfort in knowing God is in control of our lives.

So, if you're going through something today, reach for your shades of faith and trust God to bring you through whatever situation seems to be too harsh to handle on your own. Remember, without faith it is impossible to please God. Putting on your sunglasses will also hinder the enemy - why do you still look "cool" when you're going through? God has given us everything we need, we just have to use it!

Grab your shades and let's take a stroll....with God ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!

Good morning all.......

2010-04-17T08:20:00.001-04:00

I'm getting lots of wonderful comments on my work from yesterday's photo shoot. Thanks to all! I enjoyed it so much. People are beginning to place appointment times so if you're interested, just leave me a comment here or on Facebook or email me and I'll get back with you as soon as I can. This is exciting! Have a great day, I'm off to outreach.

A Few More

2010-04-16T18:13:00.002-04:00

Here's Some News For You

2010-04-16T17:44:00.002-04:00

I've decided to pursue my desire to take photographs....so I'm letting you in on the news! I had my first photo shoot today and I think it went rather well if I do say so myself. I thought I'd share a few with you. If you are interested or know someone who is, email or comment me and I'll be happy to get with you on prices, times, etc. Pictures can be the perfect gift for that herson who's hard to buy for. Check it out...leave comments...spread the word.

Are you color blind?

2010-04-15T11:01:00.002-04:00

Isn't it amazing how God sees the big picture and we only see the stuff that's in a certain color? I love to work with photo shop programs. You can choose a certain color in a picture and work with only that color - the rest of the picture remains untouched. I think that's how we often see life - only certain colors. However, God sees every color, including the tint and shading. There is nothing He cannot see and nothing escapes His all seeing eye. Our Bible study lesson last night was on being submissive to the Lord and it was pointed out how sometimes we think our idea or way is better. God allows us to go ahead...knowing all the time that we're messing up. He sees the big picture!

So many times we try to fix things on our own instead of allowing God to work it in His time. And usually, we make a mess of things and have to suffer the consequences. I was thinking about Noah. What if he had decided that he knew a better way to build the ark than what God had told him? God knew every detail and gave them to Noah, expecting him to follow every detail to the finish- the type of wood, the pitch, the size, all the way to the number of doors and windows. God didn't have to worry about wether Noah would follow His lead, He knew Noah was faithful and submissive. Noah wouldn't try to take short-cuts or improve on God's plan.

That's what I want to do...no questions on any details, Lord. I just want to obey. The simple truth behind there being safety and rest in being submissive is amazing. If we will but follow His lead, the Lord will take care of us. What a revelation! We don't have to worry about how things will turn out if we will only be submissive to Him. This goes right along with the idea of servanthood which I wrote about a couple days ago. Wouldn't life be so much easier if we would follow God's lead, be submissive and servant minded? Even if we are color blind at a time and dont' see it all too clearly, know that God has the finished product in mind and He will bring it to pass....if we will but do our part.

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To Be Or Not To Be....A Servant

2010-04-13T10:44:00.001-04:00

My thoughts today are on that of servanthood. Of course this is a subject of which there are many extensions and levels; however, I want to keep it simple. What is greater than a servant? It's interesting to note that while we consider the men of the Bible to be "great" men, most, if not all, who wrote the books of the Bible considered themselves to be servants. Why Jesus even stooped to the level of servanthood when he humbled Himself and washed the disciples feet. He showed us how it was to be done!

A servant does what is asked of him, he even goes above and beyond what's expected and does so without complaining. A servant is humble and meek, Jesus even stated that he was meek and lowly. A servant attends to the needs of others. It's not about doing something BIG, but just doing, even the littlest, most obscure task. A servant is a minister. Do you find that statement shocking? There are many who want to be labeled a minister, however, they are unwilling to stoop from their "position" to serve. A servant IS all about obedience and faithfulness!

So, today, my prayer is to be a servant. The little song I remember as a child goes something like this: "Make me a servant, humble and meek, Lord let me lift up, those who are weak, and may the prayer of my heart always be, make me a servant today." This world would be a lot better place if there were more people with servant attitudes. Won't you make this your prayer? and attitude? If Jesus can do it, I know we can!

We're Back!

2010-04-12T11:24:00.000-04:00

Ok, so we're back. Yes, it's been quite a while, but I've had the sudden urge to write again...because I love to write! So, spread the word once again, check back often, leave a comment when the mood strikes. Hope you come to be a great supporter of this blogger....lol....and in the meantime, I'll enjoy sharing little tid bits with you and yours. God bless each of you...see you later....